I now have a baby with my fiancé. And later on in the middle part of December 2009 this girl called him up saying she was four and a half months pregnant for him. By that time I was two months pregnant from him. So I asked him did he think it was his and he said yes. Since this was before my time I couldn't do nothing but accept it. As time went on she kept changing her due date to May 2010, June 2010, and finally July 23, 2010 two days before my due date July 25, 2010. But by her saying she was four and a half months pregnant my estimated time she was due was in April or beginning of May. First she said at the end of May or the first part of June. Then she said July 23, 2010. My boyfriend has a co-worker that he sometimes uses he phone to call me. And one day he was using the phone to call me while he was at work and a text message came through saying his last name and baby mama. So in his head he was thinking why is my fiancé texting his co- worker. So he open the text message up it was the girl saying that **** was good last night. Turn out to be she was sleeping with the co-worker. So then he started putting little clues together. Like at first she told him that her brother best friend was the daddy of the baby. Then when he comfronted her about it she said she only said that because she was mad at him. So I eventually asked my boyfriend not to lie to me because the girl kept sticking to her story that he was the father and did he go back and cheat on me. He eventually answered yes. So I asked him when and he said the day of Kashmere game. So I went and googled the date of Kashmere game and it came up October 10, 2009. So he finally asked the girl when did she get pregnant she said October 10, 2009. Remember she said her due date was July 23, 2010 she had the baby July 22, 2010. My due date was July 25,2010 and my date of conception was October 31, 2009 at 2:00 in the morning right after the R-Kelly concert. The question is how did we get due dates so close together and conception times was almost three weeks off. So I decided to call up the co-worker and ask him so questions he said she has a book and in this book she has all the name and dates of the guys she was sleeping with and he asked her what did she think my fiancé was gone say when he found out she was sleeping with him and all these guys at the same time. She just laughed. So the co-worker also told me that he kept on asking her what her due date was and she could never give a answer. So one day the girl and I met up face to face while we were both pregnant. She told me he been knew about her due date. The co- worker said she was lying because my boyfreind kept asking him to ask her when she was due and she kept on giving a different day. So I look on her Face Book page and she has on there two more months to go and this was in the month of April. Two more months after April becomes June. But she swore by her story that he been knew the due date. And times I would have him call her on the phone to ask her, she still could never give a acurate due date. So she put on her face book page she going to be my fiancé worst nightmare and her and her daughter is gone get paid. Well the day they went to the
Attorney General he asked for a D N A test. She messed up her paper work 3 or 4 times, so the lady and him asked her what was wrong and she said that she was nervous. So he asked her what was she nervous for she said she didn't know. Why would she be nervous its only a D N A test not a lie detector test, AIDS test or a test for cancer. Why would she be so nervous and she kept shaking her leg really hard. So I looked at all her post on FaceBook she must have been with over ten guys while she was pregnant with her little girl. So when my fiancé told her about that all she could do was laugh and he told her that's nasty to be with all those guys while your pregnant. Our ovulation calendar says we both should have gotten pregnant at the end of October or beginning of November to get that due date. And it says that from date of conception you all go up to 266 days and hers is 285 days even though all those or facts, she still keep sticking to the same story and haven't changed her story and she knows the truth is going to come out they goback for the D N A test on the 15 of November. And he kept asking her was there any body else and she would pause and then answer no. But what she didn't know is that we know about the book she keeps. So he told her put it on the bible there was no body else and she answered why did she have to that, what you don't think she yours? And he answered no. So later that day I checked her Face Book page thinking she would be bragging about it and she said that. She wish she could go back in her past to fix some things and what ever happens she just put it in god hands. Now what would be her purpose for saying that? So based on all that information what do you all think?

There seems to be so much "he said, she said" going on that it is no wonder you can't get a straight answer from anyone.

You both may know when you had sex, but the actual date of conception is rarely known. There is a four-five week window at the end of pregnancy that would be perfectly normal for a baby to be born in. So, could the baby be his... with some of the dates given, yes. But there is no way to know until you have the DNA testing done.

Wait for the DNA testing. If the baby is his, then he will have to step up and help support the child. Any contact with the mother should be minimal and ONLY to do with the child.

If the baby is not his, then cut all ties with this woman. No Facebook connection, no texting, no phone calls, nothing.

Too much drama going on... time to put it all to rest and get on with your lives.

I don't understand how it could still be his but when I do my due date and my friends due date there's perfectly accurate. We are only two days apart when it comes down to the due date

Due dates give you an idea, but are not an exact science, so stop trying to prove whether she is lying or not, because the only science here that works is DNA testing. Until you get that, stop speculating, presuming and assuming what goes on in the mind of a female who doesn't know herself who fathered her baby.

You are giving her way too much attention, and way too much credit. Stop it, and get on with your own life, and let your husband sweat the results. She sounds like a class A trouble maker and crap stirrer than a responsible type any way, and your just feeding into her drama. Cut it out!!

You can't really go by what she said because it has changed too many times. You can't really even go by what your boyfriend has said because he has lied to you as well.

If you go by when she had the baby, she most likely conceived sometime between mid October to early November. Due dates are not exact. Ovulation calendars are not exact.

You will simply have to wait until the DNA testing is done.
Don't waste anymore time trying to figure it out, checking up on her, or getting other people to do it for you.

If you are happy in your relationship with your boyfriend, if you have rebuilt the trust, and are enjoying raising your child together, both of you should do your best to distance yourself from this woman, the co-worker, and the situation until you know whether your boyfriend will need to be involved with the child.

... And you should stop worrying about these things with your condition. At least she agreed to take the DNA test, the results can't lie. Best of luck to you and your baby.

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Your right. I should cut it out, it just annoying and it hurt so bad. I need to figure out something better to do with my time, but thanks for the advice

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I never seen a man that is truly so sorry because I've been through this before and I'm not just saying that to keep up for him but your right I need to just move on. But when it come down to women my fiancé just don't have a clue