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sweetypie1234
Oct 23, 2010, 04:21 PM
Hi I have been going out with a boy for 5 months now and he is really sweet and all but every time I ask him if he wants to go out one day he says he is busy. He won't even tell people were going out. I wish he would hold my hand and hug me, talk to me everyday, but he does the total opposite! He won't even say hi to me in school. Does he even care about me?

rebeccahstrean
Oct 23, 2010, 06:37 PM
You need to sit him down and communicate with him. You need to tell him how you feel and what's going on in your relationship. Why is he with you if he doesn't seem like he doesn't want to be with you. Ask him that.

Devorameira
Oct 24, 2010, 07:25 AM
I wouldn't waste my time with a fellow that doesn't spend time with me or who isn't proud to tell everyone that you're dating.

You're better than that and deserve someone who cares.

mmresd
Oct 24, 2010, 10:42 AM
I don't think he would be hanging out with you if he didn't like you, unless you think he is looking for just sex or something like that. And we have no back story about him so maybe he just got out of a bad relationship and as much as he might like you might not be ready to start another one. It could also be that maybe he sees you as a friend and nothing more. So definitely, talk to him about it, it will be way better than wondering whether he likes you or not and maybe just doesn't have the balls to tell you. Exclusiveness has to be an agreement between both parties so see how he feels about it.

Good Luck,

Javi