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hottamolly
Oct 16, 2010, 10:15 AM
I had sex 2 days ago.I am 13 My ***** hurts so bad! And my mom and dad don't no they keep asking questions about periods *** help!

J_9
Oct 16, 2010, 10:24 AM
Firstly, please watch your language.

Now, what help would you like from us? Are you ready to be a mother? Can you afford a baby? If the answer to these questions is no, then stop having sex.

Homegirl 50
Oct 16, 2010, 11:02 AM
Can you be more specific about what you want to know?
If your parents are asking you about periods, perhaps they suspect you are having sex.
I hope this is not something you continue to do. You are way too young for sex or motherhood.

ginabina1014
Oct 21, 2010, 03:13 PM
Your only 13. Why are you having sex in the first place?

Alty
Oct 21, 2010, 03:21 PM
Hotamolly, you're a child. Children shouldn't be having sex, it's a very adult thing to do and there's a reason why only adults should be doing it. At 13 you're not ready for any of the consequences of sex, not motherhood, diseases, the emotional and physical aspects of sex. You're just not ready.

It's a bit late to stop you now, the past is the past and you can't change what happened, but you can change the future and I really hope you think about that future and stop what you're doing.

If you're in pain then it's possible that something is wrong. I know you don't want to tell your parents, but as a mother, I know I'd rather my child come to me (even if I might be upset by her actions) then to deal with this by themselves.

Talk to your parents. Yes, they'll likely be mad, but only because they love you and want the best for you.

In the future, wait until you're older to have sex, okay?

Fr_Chuck
Oct 21, 2010, 07:12 PM
And I bet mom and dad suspect something if they are asking you about your period.

So how does lying to your parents make you feel.