Hey what's up can somebody please help me with this?well it all started of a year ago I was with this guy for a year he was a varsity football player I was a varsity softball player. The last month me and him were going out he cheated on me and got this girl pregnant. He cheated on me so many times and I was stupid for taking him back. Know he is taking me to court because he said I hit him which I didn't he hit me I got proof of pictures and my parents do too, but why would he do this to me can someone please tell me why thank you.

Just to clarify, are you male or female, and is he bi, or straight.

Regardless, you were involved in a relationship, that eventually crumbled. Along the way there was infidelity, multiple times, a pregnancy during an affair, and both of you were physical with each other to the point of police charges and a pending court case.

I don't know why you chose to keep allowing him back in your life, when you knew he wasn't faithful.

But, you cannot change the past. Try to get through the court case, and then on with your life.

As hard as that may be right now, facing the future on your own, is a far healthier place to be, than in a toxic relationship.

Do your best to figure out why you accepted a relationship that left you cheated on and battered. Think of future relationships with higher standards for yourself, and don't settle for any person who does not treat you with respect and dignity. They are not worth the investment.

You're both toxic to each other, and needed to leave each other alone, and would have avoided this bull crap. He is doing this because he is a weasel of a fellow, and a liar, and cheater, so what do you expect?

Doesn't matter what you thought of him before, because you are wrong now, expecting him to do the right thing, he won't, and never has.

Well, if he hit you and you have evidence then your fine in court!! But he's a douche and just forget him, he's not worth it.

Thank you very much for helping me it just sucks that I have to go threw this and it feels I have to deal with this all bymyself and there nobody there for me it feels like someone stabing me thank you for helping me with this:)

Handle your court business with him and be thankful he is out of your life.
Remember when someone treats you like crap, when they cheat on you they are not good boy friend material. When you keep taking them back you are giving them permission to treat you like dirt.