rosal
Oct 14, 2010, 12:07 AM
Hello Friends,
I am a Punjabi-gujjar boy and I am in love with a Punjabi-Brahmin girl since the year 2004. Our situation is very different from that of a simple inter-cast love marriage. Please read carefully, understand the situation and then suggest something really effective. In the year 2007 my girlfriend's parents came to know about our relation and they got her married forcefully and we parted our ways. She went to the other state and unfortunately became a victim of domestic violence and dowry. She came back to her parents home after 2-3 months as she was threatened to be murdered by her in laws. In the year 2008, I came to know all this through a common friend and I could not control my emotions and convinced her somehow to at least be a normal friend. But both of us did not even realize when we started loving each other again. Now we have decided to get married, her parents are almost convinced as they want to stand by her now. But the biggest problem is now arising from my side. I told my parents in January 2010 and after 10 months they are still sticking to the same point that she is divorced and also does not belong to our cast. I have tried every possible thing to convince them about this but in vain. I had taken my decision of getting married and living separately from my parents but My girlfriend wants to get married with our families consent. She wants to live a normal family life with my family and me both and I really want to give her what she wants.
Please if someone can help, I would really be grateful as we cannot even think of life without each other. God has given us a second chance and we want to avail it definitely.
Please help us..
Romit
I am a Punjabi-gujjar boy and I am in love with a Punjabi-Brahmin girl since the year 2004. Our situation is very different from that of a simple inter-cast love marriage. Please read carefully, understand the situation and then suggest something really effective. In the year 2007 my girlfriend's parents came to know about our relation and they got her married forcefully and we parted our ways. She went to the other state and unfortunately became a victim of domestic violence and dowry. She came back to her parents home after 2-3 months as she was threatened to be murdered by her in laws. In the year 2008, I came to know all this through a common friend and I could not control my emotions and convinced her somehow to at least be a normal friend. But both of us did not even realize when we started loving each other again. Now we have decided to get married, her parents are almost convinced as they want to stand by her now. But the biggest problem is now arising from my side. I told my parents in January 2010 and after 10 months they are still sticking to the same point that she is divorced and also does not belong to our cast. I have tried every possible thing to convince them about this but in vain. I had taken my decision of getting married and living separately from my parents but My girlfriend wants to get married with our families consent. She wants to live a normal family life with my family and me both and I really want to give her what she wants.
Please if someone can help, I would really be grateful as we cannot even think of life without each other. God has given us a second chance and we want to avail it definitely.
Please help us..
Romit