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Caoimhex
Oct 12, 2010, 01:44 PM
I was with my best friends brother for over 8 months and I broke up with him because I never got to see him because he lives far away , but my best friend started a fight with me because of it :/ its been over a year , me and my friend are back friends , but he still won't talk to me :/ I know I might of hurt him but its still killing me inside that I broke up with him & now he won't talk too me and that's even worse . But not only that I keep getting real jelous of other girls around him. When I text he won't text back & if I say hi (in person) Sometimes I might get one back :/ I dunnno what to do because I'm still in love with him but I think he hates me :/ Please Help Me...

redhed35
Oct 12, 2010, 01:53 PM
Perhaps he was really hurt and he has gotten over you.

He may know you still have feelings for him and does not want to confuse the situation.

At 15 you will meet lots of boys before you settle down.

Enjoy spending time with your friends,have fun,your 15,there's plenty of time for serious relationships.

Just be nice, say hey if you meet him,leave it at that.

Caoimhex
Oct 12, 2010, 02:01 PM
But its been over a year & still think about him every day and I just can't get over him & I'm just so confused & I know he doesn't like me and I dunnno what to do because I can't just forget about him :/ xx

beachloverjohn
Oct 12, 2010, 02:06 PM
Look, if your 15, then you know nothing about love or life. You need to grow up a little before you should tackle such heavy issues. Stop rushing it. Your not even finished with high school. Why get so serious about any boy at your age. It can lead to nothing.. What you feel is nothing more than puppy love, and he doesn't hate you. By the time you are 21, you will have lots of boyfriends, and each one will seem better than the last. And when your 25, you won't settle for anyone that can't give you a fabulous life, a couple of kids, and a sex in the city type of lifestyle. So wait until then to get serious and take care of yourself in the meantime

redhed35
Oct 12, 2010, 02:09 PM
There is nothing you can do to make him like you the same way,there's nothing to be confused over,he does not want to be boyfriend and girlfriend.

Remember all the reasons it did not work out the first time,they were good reasons,that's why its over.

You can keep busy in school,and with your friends.

Your friendship with your best friend broke up over it the last time,friends are really important,best friends are hard to come by.

s.m.lover
Oct 15, 2010, 07:01 PM
Quote from redhed35:perhaps he was really hurt and he has gotten over you.

He may know you still have feelings for him and does not want to confuse the situation.

At 15 you will meet lots of boys before you settle down.

Enjoy spending time with your friends,have fun,your 15,there's plenty of time for serious relationships.

Just be nice, say hey if you meet him,leave it at that.





I agree!

s.m.lover
Oct 15, 2010, 07:03 PM
I meant PERHAPS. Stupid emoticon thingy. >:(