I can'y find any books about husbands married to gay women. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

Does she want to continue to be married? She "thinks" she is gay? (What does THAT mean?)

Yes, there are books. Do you want fiction or non-fiction?

Okay maybe "thinks " is not the right word. She is pursuing a relationship with a woman now. But she wantes to stay married for now.

Non-fiction. Perferrably from a mans (husband or ex) point of view but will look at all suggestions.

Thanks

There are helpful web sites. Here's one --

Same Sex Infidelity -- Why Wives of Gay Men are the Last to Know (http://marriage.about.com/od/straightspouses/a/samesexinfid.htm)

Here's another --

http://www.straightspouse.org/blog/?tag=gay-married

Okay maybe "thinks " is not the right word. She is persuing a relationship with a woman now. But she wantes to stay married for now.

Non-fiction. perferrably from a mans (husband or ex) point of view but will look at all suggestions.

Thanks
If had a wife and she thought she was a lesbian, I would suggest she talk to a therapist. But, if she was perusing a relationship, I'd being talking to a divorce lawyer.

The prospect of her being a lesbian isn't the issue. The real problem is that she's cheating on you and you're allowing it! She's taking advantage of you, you need to put a stop to this.

Here's one title, but it's dated (but probably not inaccurate) --

Ivan Hill - The Bisexual Spouse : Different Dimensions In Human Sexuality ; 306.765 BIS