sagitarus24
Oct 2, 2010, 05:00 PM
Hello well I'm a 26 year woman who been seeing a guy and we finally decide to have sex but it didn't work out the way I planned due to the fact (this was my first time) nor was he able to enter me during penetration. I feel a lot of pain and try to relax but it wasn't working out for me. We stop and notice blood so I went to the bathroom the bleeding continue and since then I've been spotting. I've tried to relax and find vagina opening and really couldn't see it. I went to my GYN and explain the issues because I thought the blood was from my hymen breaking but he advise that mines was already broken before that night plus he gave birth control to take which I started . I attempted to try and have sex again and the same problem happen again. Spoke with my doctor because I thought something was wrong with my vagina and the spotting still continue, he told me I'm fine its just that I have strong vagina muscle that prevent my vagina to lock up and advise me to relax. As far as the spotting its typical to bleed or spot for a month because its my first time taking birth control and my body has to get use to it. I want to know what do I need to do to relax in order to have sex without pain and without vagina locking up ?