What do you think a man is doing who gets out of your bed in the middle of the night finds your thong in the dark and puts it on? He doesn't wake you or tell you therefore keeping it a secret but I saw him do it?

That he wants to try on your underwear.

Lots of men like wearing women's underwear, they are smooth and soft and feel sexy. I know a few women who give their husbands their knickers to wear at work, and they both get a kick out of that. It's only a problem, I feel, if that's the only thing that gets him excited, or if it's something you can't tolerate.

Why would it be the only thing that gets him excited? He was next to my naked body.

If your naked body gets him excited, and he occasionally likes to spice things up by wearing your knickers, not a problem. It's only a problem if he MUST wear your knickers to get excited.

I have a couple of pictures of film stars that I occasionally use to inspire myself. It doesn't mean that I don't love my husband or have a problem.

He enjoys it, nothing else to think, work it into your relationship if you want