Hey Everyone!

Well I met this really awesome girl and we had a great first date about 2 weeks ago (we had started talking about 2 or 3 weeks prior). A week later I gave her a small Christmas gift, nothing too forward, and she loved it! Then about 3 days later, on Christmas Day, I sent her an e-card wishing her a Merry Christmas (it was short and sweet). She responded that same day thanking me for the e-card.

My question is: What now? I'm not sure how much contact I should try and keep with this girl without sounding desperate and needy for a relationship, but at the same time showing that I still have interest. I haven't contacted her since Christmas Day and I'm thinking I should wait till next week (sometime after the New Year) to contact her again and see how she's doing. Is that too late or too soon?

I'm pretty sure she is dating/seeing other guys so I want to try and stay in the picture but I'm not sure how too. I'm afraid if I keep too much contact I'll annoy her, but I worry if I don't keep enough contact some other guy will come in and sweep her off her feet. Any advice on this silly little matter?

Well if this girl is dating and not with anyone what stopping you from just asking her out? I say go for it and ask her out. If she turns you down then there are other fish in the sea. GOOD LUCK.