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Mary_Tr
Sep 25, 2010, 03:45 PM
Well.. I was with that boy.we broke up 1 year ago but I still like him, a lot.. my friends has always been telling me that he's not for me.. yesterday they hooked up and she wasn't planning on telling me that they're going to start dating.. she was one of the people who knew how much I cried when we broke up and she tried to get to him again 3 months ago with the excuse that she was drunk.. I forgave her and now I told her that I support her but I feel awful.. I feel betrayed and idiot.. what should I do..

raychellette
Sep 25, 2010, 07:02 PM
That sucks my best friend likes my dude best friend and it makes me mad because I kind of like him but I deal with it. What I would do if I wer you is try to get him back

quisha
Oct 7, 2010, 11:43 AM
If she was really your best friend then she would have told you that she even had feelings for that guy at all.. and if she knew that you had and still have feelings for him then she would have backed off and said no to him.Third of all he's not a good boyfriend if he turns around and dates your best friend.. Ewww. Your friend is a backstabber...

Cupcake01
Oct 19, 2010, 11:36 AM
Wow, this is EXACTLY what happened to me. Except my friend never fessed up, she still tried to lie about it after the fact. I may have forgiven her if she at least respected our friendship enough to try and fix things and admit to what she did and apologize. But, at the same time she already proved that she didn't respect our friendship because she went behind my back and did that to begin with. Basically, your friend is in the absolute wrong. Don't ever feel guilty for it. It sounds like you and your friend are pretty close. So instead of just accepting it, tell her how you really feel. Let her know that it really bothers you and if she is a true friend she'll back off and consider your feelings as very important. She should realize that guys come and go, but friends are supposed to be forever. So Good luck, and I hope everything works out! =]