Maybe its just me,but in my life experience if your significant other just out the clear blue says that we won't talk as muchas we used to and then says she needs some alone time. Its safe to assume, she is either screwing around or seeing someone else on the side.but me being me, I try to give her the benefit of the doubt and see if its something else she is going through or trying to work out. But red flags are popping up, when the old saying goes,when the person that usually is accusing the other of cheating, the person accusing is the on that's actually cheating?true?or could it actually be they have a built in insecurity as they claim,cause an ex boyfriend, cheated on and dogged them out so bad that, they don't trust anyone?what would you think?right now.I am at a stalemate and don't know what to think cause I do everything and I am very faithful,treat her like a queen but I don't know if it's the emotional baggage she's carrying from a previous relationship or could it be that she is a rotten apple, that's rooten to the core... give me your opinion cause I can't seem to come up with on that's maybe staring me right in the face... ladies... help me out,because.. women are so hard to understand

I just said the same thing to my boyfriend today, and I'm not cheating or seeing anyone else. Sometimes people just need time alone to figure things out with their own lifes. Doesn't mean they don't still love you, maybe they just need space to get things off their minds. But sadly some girls/guys are just cheating and don't want to just leave you. So they tell you they need alone time. Just don't be so quick to judge and maybe wait till there's more obivous signs or till she tells you herself what's going on. But if you keep asking her why she needs time and just assume things you might hurt the relationship more then you had to. Just give it time. Amazingly not every girl is out there to break hearts. I really hope it works out for you <3

I wouldn't even worry about trying to guess what's up or why she's doing what she's doing. Give her the space she says she needs. Then get out and live your life and have fun, without her. Let her wonder what you're up to. Keeping that mystery will spark her interest more than if you act clingy or needy and constantly try to analyze everything.

If she needs time to herself and to evalute her status, then you should give her the space. Meanwhile, you should be out enjoying yourself, keeping yourself busy(clubs, parties, etc.)
You shouldn't wait around for her to make up her mind. You should continue having fun and make new friends. The worst thing you want to experience waiting for her to make up her mind, and come to find out she has feelings for someone else.
You would feel like you have wasted your time. Go out and have fun. If something was bothering her, she would have at least told you something. You have the right to be curious!

So has she accused you of cheating, or have you accused her? Before the accusations start to fly, consider that she may be telling the truth. She may be having second thoughts about the relationship because the communication doesn't flow anymore and she needs to spend some time alone to decide whether she thinks it's worth trying work it out. Let her do that, and use the time to do the same for yourself.

You'v gotten some really great answers here so I hope you think about it and make a decision to enjoy yourself. Waiting for a woman to come around to your way thinking is futile. Wait on the bus, nor a female.