There's this guy who I think is into me, and I keep dropping hints to him but he just doesn't ask me out. All my friends think he likes me and so do I but he's had so many opportunities to ask me out and he never does. It's been months now and the longer he leaves it the more insecure I get. I keep thinking I'm not good enough for him and that's why he doesn't want to risk it. We're doing the same course so it's pretty much guaranteed that I'll c him for the next 3 yrs so getting together and breaking up may make things awkward. But he doesn't treat me like a friend. He only talks to me when I'm around others and he calls me at like midnight. He won't leave me alone but he won't do anything about us. I have this rule about guys where I never ask them out. Either he doesn't like me and that's why he hasn't said anything, in which case asking him out would b a huge mistake or else he likes me but he's just too ***** to do anything about it, in which case I refuse to go out with a guy who doesn't have the balls to take the first step. I keep telling myself that I got to tell him to stop calling the next time I c him but when I see his smile I just melt and lose myself. Help. What can I do to notice him or at least get over him. I've been asked out twice since he came into my life and I've rejected both those guys because of him. What do I do?

He may be too shy to ask you out. It is possible your rules are holding you back. I did not ask men out either but when I met my husband he came with so much baggage he did not think he had a right to ask me out. Asked him and we have been together almost 37 years. He had reasons I had never thought of. If he isn't interested you will know and the relationship can be put to rest.

Option 1- Bend the rules, and ask him out.

Option 2- Ask him straight up, what his intentions are.

Option 3- Stop being available to him, so you can get beyond whatever it is you have and start taking other options and opportunities to enjoy yourself.

Maybe he is happy with the way things are, but after months, it would seem that one of you would have the communications skills to find out what the other has on their minds.

Ask questions for gosh sakes, since you see each other all the time.

Ask him out.

Break your own rules and ask him out. Don't be so serious about this, just have fun.

Just wait for him. Maybe it's because he driving you crazy so when he finally asks you you'll say yes for sure. You know what I'm sayin'?

I think you should take control you are a great depdent girl so you should take control and go ahead if he says no you can still be friend and then you know he doesn't want to be in a relation ship with u