My boyfriend lives three hours form me. At times I don't know if I can do it anymore, I need him here. But I love him so so so so much and can not see myself with out him. I get mad when he is not here and I just need him.

Why do you two live so far from each other?

How long have you two been together?

How old are you two?

I am in college
We have been together for almost 2 years
He is 28 and I'm 21

So when do you see each other ? And how often ?


Do you have plans to be closer to him soon ?
Move to a college closer to him ?

Now on the other hand, that is missing someone and really in love.

The other issue of course if being too dependent, and getting mad when he is not around can be a issue of other problems in a relationship also.
Sad, depressed, perhaps from missing him.

But a couple need to have their own separate lives also

I honestly know what you are going through. Even though I am younger than you. Im seventeen years old, and I'm dating a guy three hours away from me. Actually its more like four hours away. He just turned sixteen. As if the distance wasn't enough. He is also younger than me and people tend to tease me about it. I really don't care though. I have never met him! But I LOVE HIM. I really do, and I have been dating him for almost six months. I really love him and want to be with him all the time, but I know that I cant. Not now anyway. Its just not in the cards now. But I do know that I love him, and its nither one of our faults. So I don't get angry at him or anything. Because I know that one day We will be with each other, even if it takes a long time, I really don't care how long it takes, cause Ill be with him no matter what. You need to keep the faith and hope. If you really love him, you will realize that distance only makes the heart grow fonder. If you don't like hearing that from a seventeen year old or even taking the advice from me well that's fine. Im just giving you my experience with it, because I am going through a similar thing. I wish you the best of luck, and if its love, you guys will be with each other all the time soon.