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nena120
Sep 5, 2010, 12:55 PM
I went to a church convention on the 6th and on the way back on the 7th on the bus I had to move up because of some reason well I asked him how old was he and he said 15 and I said what does he like to do and he said play soccer I said it was cool.. well that night I told his sister who I shared a room with at the convention I liked him and to give him my number and well that night me and him started talking and on the 12th we had a banquit and well we had to serve tables and he had on on the other side of the room and well when we were done we would come together and talk well to tell you he is the pastors son so yeah he was respect full we anywas he ex girl was his first love and I always had something inside me that said he will one day leave me for her and he did I came to tenesee for vacation and I didn't want to come it was my parents idea of moveing down here so well the last day at church I ever saw him we promised each other forever and that we won't let each other go and etc ! And 4 weeks pass I text him no reply and I told his sis to tell him to text me and he wouldn't well one more week past and he text me and said he thinks we should see other people I said why is that he said I don't know and I said OK fine then '' started to cry '' and the next day I had a dream that him and his ex were together and everything that happened in that dream really came true... well now his ex and him arnt together but he still likes her I want to see if he still likes me and if he even has feelings how do I get him back... he was my first true love I can't let that goo...

Kitkat22
Sep 5, 2010, 01:01 PM
It's hard to like someone and know they like someone else. Don't contact him at all. You can't make him like you. Sorry.

Homegirl 50
Sep 5, 2010, 01:08 PM
Leave the boy alone. You had a nice friendship for a few days but it's over. He has told you that in so many words. Accept it.

nena120
Sep 5, 2010, 01:09 PM
Well we talk but as friends for now.. and I gues you can't make none like you but I love him he is my first love and if so HOW do I get over him >??


Leave the boy alone. You had a nice friendship for a few days but it's over. He has told you that in so many words. Accept it. it was a few months by the way!


It was 5 months

Kitkat22
Sep 5, 2010, 01:15 PM
Doesn't matter... he likes someone else. No Contact if you want to get over him.

nena120
Sep 5, 2010, 01:16 PM
What do u do when they all you think about? And your not even close to what they thinking about?? /

Kitkat22
Sep 5, 2010, 01:21 PM
What do u do when they all you think about ?? And your not even close to what they thinking about ????/

Please type in words not chat or text speak.

nena120
Sep 5, 2010, 01:21 PM
OK how about if I think about him ? And his birthday is tomarrow what do I do >? I have to say happy birthday he did it to me and we weren't even dateinqq !

Kitkat22
Sep 5, 2010, 01:23 PM
ok how about if i think about him ? and his birthday is tomarrow what do i do >? i have to say happy birthday he did it to me and we werent even dateinqq !

No contact and please use spell check.

Homegirl 50
Sep 5, 2010, 01:28 PM
ok how about if i think about him ? and his birthday is tomorrow what do i do >? i have to say happy birthday he did it to me and we weren't even dating !

You need to find other things to do with your time. Don't you have other friends to hang out with? You don't need to wish him Happy Birthday either because you'll be upset if he does not respond. Stay away , no contact.