I have been with my boyfriend for2 years. He was an alcoholic and sropped drinking a yea
R ago. But since he stopped so has our sex life. I think the last time was 5months ago. We do love each other. He's been to the docs too they just say viagra but its so expensive and u have to plan it. He has a dodgy leg to so he's constantly in pain. I can't imagine being without him but I'm close to leaving.

I don't think you can make him want sex with you. You have to be able to talk openly about this with him, and if he is not able, there are other things he can do, If he is not willing then you might have to cut him loose.

No chat or text speak. Welcome to the forum.

Hiya. We do talk but I end up getting grumpy with him. I really don't no what to do and he doesn't no either. He's tried counceling but stopped after a few months as him and his councilor agreed they weren't getting anywhere. And he's scared of herbal viagra because he doesn't no what's in it and its expensive and so is viagra.

So you will leave your boy friend because he is not able to have sex?
I think he would if he could and your pressuring does not help.
If you cannot not handle his disability, leave. The choice is yours.

What kind of meds does he take for his leg? Why do you get grumpy when neither of you knows what to do. You know there are other things beside Viagra that a doctor can recommend for his problem, but you have to be honest with them about the problem.

Hi peeps. Well if I don't go on at him he doesn't bother even trying to come on to me. Mind you he doesn't try full stop. What are the other things to help other than viagra. We find this so frustrating. There just doesn't seem to be another way. His pain killers are co- codamol.

Why would you leave? You love him he loves you. Tell the doctor you all cannot afford viagra and he may give you some Viagra!

http://www.ehow.com/about_5612583_side-effects-co_codamol-tablets.html;

Sex-Drive Killers Slideshow: Low Libido Causes From Stress to Medications (http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/slideshow-sex-drive-killers)

From what I gather all the side effects of this pain killer can have adverse affect on sexual drive, and functionality.

These are alternatives

Erectile Dysfunction Medication | Drugs.com (http://www.drugs.com/condition/erectile-dysfunction.html)

Your doctor is the one to guide you thru this.

http://www.ehow.com/about_5612583_side-effects-co_codamol-tablets.html;

Sex-Drive Killers Slideshow: Low Libido Causes From Stress to Medications (http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditions/slideshow-sex-drive-killers)

From what I gather all the side effects of this pain killer can have adverse affect on sexual drive, and functionality.

These are alternatives

Erectile Dysfunction Medication | Drugs.com (http://www.drugs.com/condition/erectile-dysfunction.html)

Your doctor is the one to guide you thru this.



Tal.. what would we do without you? Got to spread the rep.:)

Thank you people for your advise. I didn't no changing painkillers may help. Thanks.:)