The only way I can reach an oragasm is when he gives my oral. I really don't care for the intercourse part of sex but love the oral. Why?

How old are you?

This is very normal for many women. Please let me know how old you are so I can answer you fully :)

I'm 26

Thank you my dear.


The thing is, many of us find it hard to orgazm at all. And most of us, only with clitoral stimulation. This is normal. There are many woman who can orgasm with intercourse, but more of us who cannot. And usually what we see in movies and pornography, is staged, and not real.

Listen to your body. Do what feels right and good for YOU. Experiment as well. Sometimes, it can feel amazing to have a man both preform oral sex on you, at the same time as using a dildo or his fingers inside you. Or even use a bullet or other vibrator on your clitoris at the same time of intercourse.

Good luck!

It probably has to do with the direct stimulation to the clitoris.

Many women have problems climaxing without a little help from fingers or a toy stimulating the clitoris.

Have you tried different positions such as with you on top? It gives you a bit more control over how to find the angles and pressure points that feel good to you.