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mommy10
Aug 19, 2010, 09:03 AM
Me and my boyfriend are having problems about my past, I use to have a lot of male friends and did date queit a few, I want him to know that I regret my past because I do, how can I prove or show him that I do regret it please help, he got this illness and his emotions change a lot please tell me what I should do to prove that I regret my past and that I love him?

Immortelle
Aug 19, 2010, 09:09 AM
Never doubt that the person you want to share your life (you're past present and future) needs to love you for everything you are.

I may have a jaded understanding of men right now, but I think if someone is making you feel poorly about something you no longer have control over, that person is trying to make you feel as poorly as they feel.

He needs to go to counselling: there is emotionally stabilizing medication and/or therapy that help resolve whatever pain he's feeling.

kiewiebeauty
Sep 9, 2010, 04:12 PM
I've just come out of a relationship like that afew days ago.
Truth is hun you can only love him you don't need to prove yourself to your botfriends if he trustsyou then he will believe you.
My ex had problems where his mood would change and he dweld on my past and I dweld on his and it ruiend the love.. please tell him you love him and you will be there for him. Get him help because proffessional help can save it before its too late.Thats if you think the relationship is worth it ?x

jmjoseph
Sep 9, 2010, 04:17 PM
He has to accept you for who you ARE, not for who you WERE, before you even met him. I've said it once, I'll say it again, the windshield is bigger than the rearview mirror.

Don't live your life having to pay for your past decisions. You can no longer tell the sun not to rise, than you can change the past.

Love knows that. Love doesn't care.

Go be treated with respect. At all costs.