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Teddylove
Dec 20, 2006, 01:26 PM
:( I met this guy and he's 5 years older than me. He's pretty cool and funny. He lives really near by. We are going to see each other in 3 days and we are going to be alone. He told me that he wants to do it with me and he wants me to go down on him and he wants to go down on me. He said that he wanted to get me prtegnant and that he wanted me to live with him if he does get me pregnant. Im only 15 and he's 20. I really like him but we just met and I don't know how far I should let him go.

aduckart
Dec 20, 2006, 01:46 PM
Teddylove - - that is pretty scary! You should always do what you feel comfortable with, say NO when it isn't comforatable any more. If you feel like you can't/won't be able to say NO, then you need to really reconsider hooking up with him. If you also really want to have a relationship with this guy, you need to be open with him - - let him know your not ready to do this or that.

You are also very young... and that pregnant comment is quite alarming! You are legally a minor and comments like that are uncalled for.

You didn't mention how long you've known/dated this guy, so my comments are based on the assumption that you just met/haven't known him long.

Please watch out for yourself. There is only one you - - therefore you are in control of you!

Good luck with whatever decision you make!

J_9
Dec 20, 2006, 02:28 PM
Teddylove, are you serious!!

In the United States what he is doing is illegal and he can go to jail!!

This is how child predators act.

You need to stay as far away from this pervert as possible!!

Of course you like him, freaks like this know how to get girls to like them. How did you meet him?

LouLou
Dec 20, 2006, 02:36 PM
I agree with the answers you already have.

This man is sick, he should be in jail. All he wants is a piece of you. He will NEVER stay with you if he gets you pregnant.

Do you know what it is like to have a baby? Do you know how much work it takes, after your parents put him in jail for molesting you?

Before we get that far, have you met him face-to-face? Or have you only met him online? How do you know for a FACT that he will not kidnap you rape you, or worse?

You need to stay away from this dangerous pervert. He is sick and will eventaully end up in jail.

Niki65
Dec 20, 2006, 02:44 PM
:( I met this guy and he's 5 years older than me. He's pretty cool and funny. He lives really near by. We are going to see eachother in 3 days and we are going to be alone. He told me that he wants to do it with me and he wants me to go down on him and he wants to go down on me. He said that he wanted to get me prtegnant and that he wanted me to live with him if he does get me pregnant. Im only 15 and he's 20. I really like him but we just met and i dont know how far i should let him go.
I would not play with fire. Be very carful with people that start with JUST the sex talk. Respect yourself and let him know you want to wait. There is more to any relationship than sex. NOT only that he is 20 and could go to jail. I am 24 years old and would still be scared if any guy came across me and a very pedifle type of way. Be careful whatever you do! But ultimatly the descions is yours!

nwsflash
Dec 20, 2006, 03:37 PM
Teddylove, are you serious!!!!

In the United States what he is doing is illegal and he can go to jail!!!

This is how child predators act.

You need to stay as far away from this pervert as possible!!!

Of course you like him, freaks like this know how to get girls to like them. How did you meet him?


Teddylove please read the post above, nothing more to add J_9 hit the nail on the head.

J_9
Dec 20, 2006, 04:02 PM
One other thing you should do is tell your parents so that another young girl does not fall prey to this pervert.

Curlyben
Dec 20, 2006, 04:07 PM
Teddylove, did you "meet" this guy through MySpace by any chance?
As this sounds like a classic case of Child Grooming (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_grooming).

RUN AWAY, DO NOT MEET HIM !!!