My lower left abdomen really hurts with my lower backpain and its just happen right after my husband and I have sex,but before that I frequently feel numb un my left arm and leg. :confused: someone help me...

As a woman I say go get checked out thers so much we as women go through go to your doctor tell them the problem. It might be nothing.

This site may help--> http://www.gettingridofbackpain.org

Have you heard of endometriosis? I always wondered when the Doctor asked if I has pain after intercourse, because he didn't ask WHERE the pain was felt - as there are a lot of choices. Endometriosis would hurt in the areas you described. It is uterine cells that get outside of your uterus and when the cells get engorged as they would inside your uterus. It can be removed with a laparoscopy.