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NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 11:54 AM
Okay so last night me and my friends all sneak out and go to are other friends house, but before that we picked up my friends girl friend and his girl friends friend who I like there are 3 of us going to to my other friends house and 2 chicks I like the single one and so does my two friends my friend Zach likes her a whole lot but he's a werido and she doesn't like him and my other friend Matt Is always trying to distract me when I try to get some personal talk with her he makes it hard for me to flirt with her and I think he does this because he knows I like her and I'm trying to get with her how should I handle this and how can I out flirt my friend Matt he always tries to step up his game whenever I flirt with her but I never distract him when he's flirting with her because that's just immature.

I wish
Aug 4, 2010, 12:01 PM
It wouldn't be so much easier to understand what you are saying if you put some punctuation. Can you please re-write what your paragraph so that it is easier to understand.

Thanks!

NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 12:05 PM
It wouldn't be so much easier to understand what you are saying if you put some punctuation. Can you please re-write what your paragraph so that it is easier to understand.

Thanks!

Simply the question was what should I do about this girl me and my friend both like her I want her he wants her and this all happened last night when we went to are friends house. Every single time I hit on her or flirt with her he attempts to distract me with a alternative conversation about something non-related It pissis me off why he does this Its making It hard for me to get close to this girl and I really really want her and yes I think I have the upper hand on looks her maybe not flirting skills but looks.

So should I be like dude leave me alone I'm trying to talk here?
Or
Dude WTH I'm trying to talk wit her can you please leave us be.

I wish
Aug 4, 2010, 12:08 PM
Speak to her when you get a chance and only worry about your conversations with her.

Can you only speak to her when you're at parties? Why don't you ask her to hang out? Why don't you call her?

NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 12:12 PM
It was not at a party we were all just hanging out we are pretty young I'm 15 she's 14 my friend (matt) is 14 my friend (zach) is 16 my friend (jaspreet) is 15 he's the guy who is at the house we where walking to at night time and his girl friend is 15 to I don't like her though her friend is what got me I was thinking about when my friend (matt) leaves we will have a lot better time flirting with each other but I don't want to tell him like hey leave dude when its not my house I also don't want to look like a major *** hole

I wish
Aug 4, 2010, 12:15 PM
It's much easier to get her contact information and speak to her on the Internet or on the phone. Once you've gotten comfortable with each other, then you can hang out just the two of you, if she's interested.

NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 12:18 PM
I don't think she has a computer she's really hot though, also she told me her phone got wet so it broke.

I wish
Aug 4, 2010, 12:22 PM
Sounds like she's either playing hard to get or not interested. If she was interested in you, she would find give you a means of contacting her.

Just keep trying to talk to her, but if she's not very responsive, then don't force the issue. Find someone else who is more interested in talking to you.

NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 12:26 PM
No I can tell she likes me when I sneak a glare at her she looks away fast when I try to get close to her I can tell that she gets nervous cause she's will act different by the things she says to me.

NativeRomeo
Aug 4, 2010, 12:28 PM
Sounds like she's either playing hard to get or not interested. If she was interested in you, she would find give you a means of contacting her.

Just keep trying to talk to her, but if she's not very responsive, then don't force the issue. Find someone else who is more interested in talking to you.

Also how can I get her alone she's really shy because she will avoid getting embarrassed while I'm around I want her to be comfortable around me not on the edge all of the time.

tickle
Aug 4, 2010, 12:32 PM
If you are asking for advice on how to make out with this girl, you are in the wrong place romeo. You isn't going to get it here.

Tick

tickle
Aug 4, 2010, 12:33 PM
I don't think she has a computer shes really hot tho, also she told me her phone got wet so it broke.

Sounds like she is not interested and is telling you in subtle ways she isn't.

Tick

cdad
Aug 4, 2010, 03:18 PM
no I can tell she likes me when I sneak a glare at her she looks away fast when I try to get close to her i can tell that she gets nervous cause shes will act different by the things she says to me.

Hate to say this but what your describing also sounds like she thinks your weird. And she would like to avoid you if she could. That's why she didn't give you any information on herself to contact her outside of the "friends " setting. Stay away from her and let things take their course.