My wondering about my husband is very sexual. This could be graphic, but I need to know. My husband does like annal. I have always known this. I would use only fingers to please him. He wanted me to upgrade with a dildo. I loving my husband and open to different sex acts I obliged. We have been together for 12 years. In the past 2 years our sex life has gotten to be more open. We had a threesome. (Another man was involved). It didn't really go well. So enough on that. I have no interest in being with another woman. My husband says he will do anything sexual I ask because he wants me to be happy. I believe he made that statement because he doesn't want to admit what he really likes. I was never one to talk dirty in bed, but lately I have for the reason of getting this gay possibility out. He comes to bed with a dildo in his *** and brings another to bed to suck on. Was I wrong saying I want to see him get ****ed by another guy. He has never hesitated using dildos for his own personal pleasure. I noticed he became a member a bisexual playground. I am not into porn, but him, he can't get enough no matter what it is. Is my husband hiding behind me? I can go on for days. Please help.

What happened when the other man was there? Did he and the other man please each other?

1) Maybe he just likes anal, just because you like anal doesn't make you gay.

2) Maybe he is bisexual.

3) Talk to him. The only way to find out is to ask him. No one here can tell you whether he is gay or not.

I agree - he's your husband. Ask him.

I think he is bi-sexual myself.

Word by word, it could be me. Posting this question. Some others meaningiful answers, please? Thanks

This thread is from 2010 and no one who hasn't already posted will see it or be notified it's here.

Please open a new thread with your specific question.

What other meaningful advice would you like to hear? I think it's pretty much covered with the info that was provided. Is your situation identical?

I think the majority said - ask him. There's no other way to know, no test.