View Full Version : How do I decode a boy text message
bandnerd101
Jul 30, 2010, 08:48 PM
OK so he says "your a wonderful person and don't you ever forget it.But I'm not ready for a relationship not just with you but with anyone.And i don't want to add on to lifes confusing puzzles.I'm sorry and i don't ever want to hurt you." what does that mean?
bleusong52
Jul 30, 2010, 08:52 PM
Decoded, this message means he is being truthful and he is telling you he does not want a romantic relationship. It sounds like he is comfortable with a friendship - maybe - but definitely not a relationship that involves love or a commitment.
Be glad he says this now and not later. So take him at his word and do not pursue him.
He is telling you he is not looking for a girlfriend - not with you, not with anyone. I give him credit here.
Hope you do the same. Don't chase him.
Wondergirl
Jul 30, 2010, 08:57 PM
Did you ask him to be your boyfriend? It sounds like he doesn't want to get involved with you or anyone else right now. Be his friend and get to know him better without emotional involvement.