View Full Version : Husband is friendly to women
bumee
Jul 26, 2010, 06:14 PM
Very often, when I am out with my husband, all these women come up and talk to him. To me, this means he is too friendly when away from me. Don't you think? He says he is friendly to both men and women alike. Dangerous, don't you think?
bleusong52
Jul 26, 2010, 06:26 PM
Not enough information to make an informed decision.
When you are with him and he sees these women he knows, do you want him to snub them? Or just merely nod his head and move on? Or to say hello and introduce you as his wife (if they do not know you)? When these women come up and talk to him, do they acknowledge you also?
What has he done in the past that gives you concern about his friendliness? Has he cheated on you? What ways has he broken your trust in him? Have you talked to him about how his chatting with these women makes you feel (insecure, not happy, stressed, anxious, etc.)? If you have talked to him, what has he said to you? Not to worry, that he loves you? That could be true you know. And yes, I know that could be a line, to throw you off his track.
So I cannot say I think his behavior is dangerous. Maybe there is potential for that but I do not know your marriage history either.
donf
Jul 28, 2010, 08:12 AM
Please consider this, has he ever done anything to make you believe that he is unfaithful?
I'm very friendly with both women and men. I enjoy conversing with other people. It is amazing to learn how other people think.
Does your husband take the time to introduce you to them?
I have worked with and for women for most of my adult life and I have never crossed the line between common sense and infidelity.
I enjoy the banter.
redhed35
Jul 28, 2010, 08:22 AM
My boyfriend is a people person,and he could talk the hind legs off a donkey,people are attracted to him.
People,men and women alike stop to talk to him all the time,does it bother me,no,do I think its dangerous,no.
I have no reason not to trust him,nor feel jealous or insecure.
I wonder from your question if your husband has given you reason to think its dangerous or if the insecurity is coming from you.
More background information needed.
Kitkat22
Jul 28, 2010, 09:03 AM
When my husband and I are out together, we always run in to old friends.
I am very friendly and a talker. He is quiet . If he were jealous he would be miserable and so would I.
We trust each other because there has never been a reason not too. Jealousy is insecurity.
talaniman
Jul 30, 2010, 08:17 AM
More info is needed to know if he is dangerous, or is it your reaction to him being friendly that's the real danger.