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jinsain
Jul 22, 2010, 12:32 AM
So I just realized that I suck at everything and no one likes me.

Everything I try I completely fail I've tried playing baseball for my school and didn't make it and when I played I didn't get one complement for my skills. Also I suck a playing online games I love playing it keeps me entertained but I am barley happy or enjoying myself because I suck very bad. Also I've tried bmxing and were I am living its really not that popular people laugh at me and pick on they call me a white boy. I have no friends what so ever I also suck acdemicaly and just feels like the world hates me I thought about suicide but I never go through with because I think about how it would devestate my brother because we are so close its like he is my best friend, and my mom is never home she is ethier working or out with her friends and I have no father he walk out on me ever since I was about 2.

(ps those were just examples of things I'm not good at)

Scleros
Jul 22, 2010, 02:26 AM
Stab in the dark here, but negative attitude and melodramatic perhaps? Your brother must like you if you are best friends. Can't say I hate you. So that's two people. Your mom probably doesn't hate you. So that's three.

You didn't say you were bad at BMXing, just that the kids tease you. So what. Kids tease everyone for any reason and are generally jerks. Very few people are proficient at any activity right out of the gate. It usually takes lots of practice. For instance, in online video gaming many of the "l33t" people are either old codgers like myself with decades of game playing experience or youngsters with no lives that play around the clock and rack up hundreds or thousands of hours of gameplay. Many newer players are too absorbed in what they are doing at any given moment to step back and take in the larger picture and apply some strategy to what they are doing to get good results. Think.

Deathlywhiterose
Jul 22, 2010, 08:45 AM
I agree with Scleros.

When it comes to online games, every now and then, you're going to get completely and utterly destroyed. I like to think that I'm pretty good at them, but every once and a while someone comes along who is just in a league of his own.

If you're good at BMXing, and enjoy it, then don't let people teasing you get you to stop. Writing is my thing personally. I ALWAYS wanted to become a published novelist. I've literally been writing stories ever since I could read and write. People have always teased me about it. No matter what your hobby is, there are always going to be people who say that it's a waste of your time. There are always going to be people who say that you're terrible at it and you should quit.

The thing is, if you don't listen to these people, and you keep doing what you love anyway, you're going to get REALLY good at it. That's what practice does. Eventually, their comments won't matter, because you will be confident in your own abilities.

Also, I'd like to be number 4 on the list of people that like you. I've been there, in the exact place you're in now. I thought I couldn't do anything right and that I was terrible at everything. But that's depression talking, and it's never true. I'm sure other people like you, and I'm sure you're good at things (we already know you're good at BMXing, but I'll bet there's more stuff too).

redhed35
Jul 22, 2010, 08:52 AM
I think your OK,so that's 5 people.

Your not doing too bad.

If you think your bad at everything,your brain will find a way to make that happen.

If you think your good at everything again,your brain will find a way to make that happen.

Keep practicing the things you like to do,tell yourself your going to be the best,regardless of what other people think.

Only you can put in the practice,not them.

And did you ever stop to think that maybe your good at BMXing,and the others were afraid you would get really good and put them in the shade?

Pick yourself and keep doing the things you like to do.

goldiesmom
Jul 29, 2010, 02:13 PM
I agree with everything everyone has said to you. We all go these phases in life. Sounds like you just moved somewhere new if that is the case give it time. The kids you are around might look different from you, but that's okay too. Find what you like and stick to it, you will become great at it. And me down for number six I like you too

positiveparent
Jul 29, 2010, 02:58 PM
You can add me for you're number 7 so how's that you've got friends. Lots of them.

I agree with the others here, keep at it with the BMXing anyone who criticises you is most probably jealous of you.

You've got your brother too, could you not tell him how you feel, he may be able to help you, perhaps he also feels the same way.

Just keep doing whatever you know you're good at.

Any more problems come back anytime we are your friends too now...