Ive seen on some computers where there is an equalizer to fine tune the quality of your music when you are listening to it, how do I get one on my computer. I don't need anything fancy just a simple download to take some of the bass out and clear the words up.

The equalizer is always part of the audio player application you are using. What program do you use to play music?

I either play on windows media but mostly limewire

I won't comment on Limewire since (a) it's pirating and (b) it's the biggest source of malware.

For WMP: 10-Band Graphic Equalizer - Windows Media Player 10 Audio Tweaks (http://malektips.com/windows_media_player_10_audio_0002.html)

So for every source I listen on I need a different e.q.

I'm not sure what you mean by "every source".
Save your personalized EQ settings in WMP and every song you play through Media Palyer will have those settings.

Personally always install SRS Audio Sandbox when setting up systems - been using since XP through win 7

https://www.srslabs.com/store/store/comersus_viewItem.asp?idProduct=6

Have a trial version you can try