I have 2 kids, 13 and 11,Their father and I have never been on good terms, and have been divorced for 6 years, I recently remarried about a year ago. Since then the kids never want to go over to their fathers house, not only because of who he is with but the way she treats them, and she has 2 kids of her own. None of the kids get along, My kids come back with marks all over them from her kids. And the times that the kids do go over there, they don't even stay with them. They are always staying at his sisters house. So he never sees them anyway. So through emails (and I have every one of them) I have talked to there father, and he has given the kids a decision on if they want to go to his house or not. But now he is demanding that I have them ready for him to pick up!
The kids don't want to go, what can I do?

I have talked to there father, and he has given the kids a decision on if they want to go to his house or not. But now he is demanding that i have them ready for him to pick up!
The kids dont want to go, what can i do?

Follow the court order! You may ask for modification based on what you said.