Ibeen getting a abuse behaviors from my step daugther .seen away back from April .it been done stop getting bad phone calls tell lies behind my back making up stores about me she tried to say dad leave me.I was nut good for him .I tell her away be for care on started it.that I was sex abues from my uncle when I was just 10 year old .she went being bad and phone the socalwork s tell re move his granchildrens from daugther house .so she putting blame on me so .now I getting bad phone calls saying your birch .so I getting now police coming door I done this to and all lies as done nuthing to known want so getting had time .now getting me so down as feel now end my live can't take more of it please make it stop.caroline

What can do

Been told by police to change phone numbers and nut go near them also I have a new answer machine .so police can check it so fare we had three calls from family .

I'm sorry that you are going thru' this... and I hope that what I have to say to contribute will be of some service:

I feel that your husband has a point... I don't think you should participate by getting involved with having to answer to his family, BUT ignoring their questions is NOT what I mean. I would merely say, "I am very sorry that my family has bothered you with all this drama. I can only say that the things they are saying is not the truth and they don't have my best interest at heart. We do not get along, never have and they are very manipulative and hurtful. I apologize for their trying to involve you in our personal drama".

Something to that effect. Just know that you can't control what people say about you or to whom they are saying it to. All you can do (short of all the other advice you previously got which was very good... ) is stand/walk in who you know yourself to be and stay strong with your head held high. You have not done anything wrong or questionable. Just please don't let your family sabotage your marriage... keep that sacred from their negativity! Never allow them to tamper with your life anymore... Be focused and be as healthy minded as you can. All this drama is not your making or your problem unless you let it become one. Good luck, God speed... :)