View Full Version : Am I falling in love faster than he is?
VonKceh
Jun 29, 2010, 11:11 AM
I've only been talking to this guy for about a week but our phone calls will last hours and we're both agree that we feel connected on a level that is so deep. We're both have never felt this way about another person. We're so much alike, it's like he's part me... He's said things like, "I can't believe you exsist" and he gets the sinking feeling in his chest when he thinks about me. We meet online. We haven't meet in person yet due to distance. Our conversations are quite amazing to say the least. These past few days I've really been feeling like I'm falling for him. I want to think he feels the same way but I don't know. I want him to say it first and hopefully in person. I'm not completely in love with him but I am falling and quite quickly. I can't stop thinking about him.
ouch101
Jun 30, 2010, 07:15 AM
This man could be anyone!! Have you talked one web cam? Seen what he looks like? ( not a picture) He could be lying about where he lives, his job, his name and even his record. For all you know he can live an hour away, live at his parents, work at McDonald and have a BAD record. He could even be married. You should meet him before you even consider being in love. Meet somewhere crowned. Tell a friend/family member all that you know about him( just in case.) After meeting him a few times then I say go for it! But be careful. As for the question I can't help you. With a phone call its to hard to tell how their really feel unlike in person. I think he may love you as you do him. But meet in person before even talking it
MissKnowitall
Jul 25, 2010, 01:44 PM
No no no! You don't ever fall for anyone you've never spent time with in the flesh. You are falling for the fantasy, not the person. I don't understand how people do this? You know NOTHING about him. All you know is you have a good rapport on the phone. You are doing yourself a huge disservice if you a. believe what he is saying without spending time with him. b. think that you can get to know someone without meeting them
You need to meet this man before you even start to make an emotional investment. Just be a friend, or not even a friend, just a buddy until you can meet him. If he is making excuses as to why he cannot see you, run away fast.
Kitkat22
Jul 25, 2010, 01:49 PM
How old are you? If you have never met this guy stay away. He could be a pervert or married or an ax murderer!