MaireKyleigh
Jun 28, 2010, 02:27 PM
I'm not getting a divorce and really don't want one. My husband has been having a lot of mental health problems and I am worried for myself and my daughter. Today he even called a Realtor to sell our house and the bank to get a new loan because he wants a new house right now. He has been talking about this for a few weeks and not very stable. He says he doesn't plan to sell our house, and doesn't care if it rents our or if it just gets repossessed. He has a lot of mood swings and yells and throws things and scares our 3 year old daughter. Today he told me that I should leave and take our daughter with me. I did and came to my parents and am just playing with her but don't know what to do. If I stay gone longer, am I kidnapping my daughter even if he said to take her? How do I get custody and protect her from being harmed or scared? I don't think that he would harm her but he isn't very stable mentally and as much as I am trying to get him help he refuses to take daily medication. He is currently seeing a psychologist (he has seen her twice, has another appt tomorrow) and will once in a while take Ativan for anxiety. He has very bad anxiety and rarely leaves the house, hasn't driven in a very long time, and has A LOT of trouble leaving the house if I am not with him.