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karatehottie14
Jun 21, 2010, 03:15 PM
Im a 14 year old girl and have nothing to do over vacation and everyone's saying that its about time that I get a boyfreind and I have to agree are there any non dangerous dating sites that I can become a member of?

BWK10
Jun 21, 2010, 03:39 PM
Too young...

karatehottie14
Jun 21, 2010, 03:47 PM
Too young...

Too bad I'm bored and I need a boy friend

J_9
Jun 21, 2010, 03:48 PM
You don't need a boyfriend to define you. You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you.

aleeyafgy
Jun 21, 2010, 03:51 PM
I am with you same age and the same promble you can go on imvu that's were I am and I meat this guy that I like maybe you can try it

J_9
Jun 21, 2010, 03:52 PM
i am with u same age and the same promble u can go on imvu thats were i am and i meat this guy that i like maybe u can try it

And that guy could be a 45 year old pervert too. ;)

aleeyafgy
Jun 21, 2010, 03:56 PM
And that guy could be a 45 year old pervert too. ;)

Yea that's ture but were just frinds I don't need a boyfriend rite now I just need someone to talk to oky and she dose not need a boyfriend she just needs something to she can go there and find frinds of her age group

Lucky098
Jun 21, 2010, 03:56 PM
Dating websites are not for kids. They're for working adults who don't have a social life (ha ha)

You should join a club or activity for the summer such as 4-H, Park & Rec. YMCA.. Volunteer some place.. I'm sure you will find someone your age.

Dating online is dangerous. I hate how those TV commercials promote online dating. There are a lot of creeps out there who target young, dumb girls.

karatehottie14
Jun 21, 2010, 04:06 PM
i am with u same age and the same promble u can go on imvu thats were i am and i meat this guy that i like maybe u can try it

I already tried it before it messed up my co puter and said I needed to pay for it =/

karatehottie14
Jun 21, 2010, 04:12 PM
I'm bored over vacation live in hampstead and I miss having a boyfriend he moved to far away =/

CarrotTalker
Jun 21, 2010, 04:15 PM
How about reading about topics that interest you, such as psychology, nature, biology, etc?

You could also join a sports team or art group?

JK191
Jun 21, 2010, 04:41 PM
You don't need a boyfriend to have fun. I'd actually advise you to use this summer to learn this really important lesson of life.

friend4u178
Jun 21, 2010, 04:55 PM
At your age female friends are much more fun , and a lot less drama ;)

positiveparent
Jun 21, 2010, 08:40 PM
You're still quite young, so enjoy life you can get into boyfriends and relationships in a year maybe, there's really no rush you know you've got your whole life ahead of you, enjoy it, live it, love can come later...

positiveparent
Jun 21, 2010, 08:45 PM
What an earth are you wanting dating sites for a b/f at your age, don't look for love through the computer, there's a ton of 14 yr old boys on the planet, and to be honest at 14 you are really much too young to be bothered about b./f.

Live your life and see the world, then start thinking about relationships.

Like I mentioned in another post you left on this site, there's no rush...

Lucky098
Jun 21, 2010, 08:47 PM
Honey, you're only 14 years old. Stop coming off as a desperate person. Its really not that attractive.

Be kind to yourself and have a wonderful summer with your friends and family. Plus.. Many summer flings happen. They're just as enjoyable as any other type of relationship.. some last a while too.

Don't define your summer fun on having a boyfriend or not... boyfriends aren't all that much fun ;) In fact, sometimes they get in the way :)

aimee_tt
Jun 21, 2010, 08:51 PM
You don't need a dating site. You need to get out doors and go out with your friends.

If you have no friends then well that's a different story.

You need a chat website. Go to Google and type in teen chat and find one that is moditored!

BUT DO NOT MEET ANYONE ONLINE!

Clough
Jun 21, 2010, 09:39 PM
Hi, karatehottie14!

What sort of things do you like to do on your own, please?

I have lots of ideas for activities that you might enjoy doing. Some of them could even be done on this site!

For me, being bored isn't even something that I ever consider being!

Thanks!

BWK10
Jun 21, 2010, 09:44 PM
Pretty sure this is probably some bored homer guy sitting at home being bored.

Clough
Jun 21, 2010, 09:47 PM
Hi again, karatehottie14!

Like I've already mentioned on your other thread.

There's lots of things to do on this site...

Thanks!

Clough
Jun 21, 2010, 09:51 PM
Originally Posted by BWK10

Too young...


too bad I'm bored and I need a boy friend

Even when I was 14, being bored was never an option.

If you'd like to know how that's accomplished, please let me know on this thread.

Thanks!

talaniman
Jun 22, 2010, 06:30 AM
I would be bored too, if I had to rely on someone else's attention to entertain me. Get out and do things, and make friends through activities where young people have fun.

Even family events is a chance to enjoy yourself. Sports is a great way not to be bored.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relationships/no-chat-speak-no-text-talk-303157.html

Just to be fair, Before you post again, everyone. Read the rule above and save yourself from being deleted.

Curlyben
Jun 22, 2010, 07:04 AM
Most dating sites have a minimum age for membership, normally 18.

Kitkat22
Jun 22, 2010, 12:27 PM
Do your parents know your're on this site? I bet they don't. All of us can tell you how dangerous they are and you probably say "won't happen to me".

Read the newspapers and watch the news... You should stay off the chat lines with people you don't know.

kappa_exprt
Jun 22, 2010, 12:52 PM
Im a 14 year old girl and have nothing to do over vacation and everyones saying that its about time that i get a boyfreind and i have to agree are there any non dangerous dating sites that i can become a member of?

You are just 14 years old. Its too young age for dating. Understand what's your priority, decide your goals, decide what career to be followed, bcoz once your climb up the ladder of your career goals, you can have boyfriends till 40.

Kitkat22
Jun 22, 2010, 12:57 PM
Bored.. was never a word I used at your age. My mom always found something for me to do if I was "bored". I became unbored very quickly.

positiveparent
Jun 22, 2010, 07:19 PM
Sorry Kit have to spread the rep, drat...

I agree though, bored what's bored, if my parents even thought I was bored out would come the broom or lawn mower or my siblings, so I avoided bored like the plague.

Kitkat22
Jun 22, 2010, 07:20 PM
You need to find something to do.
Help your Mom clean house... babysit... voulunteer to read to people at a Nursing Home.

Clough
Jun 22, 2010, 09:24 PM
What are your parents like, karatehottie14?

Thanks!

Senetor9
Jun 27, 2010, 07:44 PM
Even though I was dating during the school year I think that 14 is a young age to be going on chat sites or something. I'm 14 and need a girlfriend but I actually go out and ask people to go on dates with me. At my old school I use to help people with relationships even though I was a single.


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Kitkat22
Jun 27, 2010, 07:49 PM
Even though I was dating during the school year I think that 14 is a young age to be going on chat sites or something. I'm 14 and need a gf but I actually go out and ask people to go on dates with me. At my old school I use to help people with relationships even though I was a single.



A fourteen year old does not need another fourteen year old to advise her on how to "score". Both of you need to concentrate on being young.

positiveparent
Jun 27, 2010, 08:10 PM
Sorry kat have to spread the rep, seems that's all I do LOL.

Yes 14 is way too young to advise another 14 year old, you won't have had the experience needed to give advice and the other 14 yr old will be reluctant to take your advice.

Also you shouldn't be helping anyone else to score you've to learn how to get by in the dating game by living through it and experiencing it, there are no short cuts and besides you don't need it at 14, you've got your whole life ahead of you..

Both you and the OP...

Kitkat22
Jun 27, 2010, 08:11 PM
sorry kat have to spread the rep, seems thats all I do LOL.

Yes 14 is way too young to advise another 14 year old, you wont have had the experience needed to give advice and the other 14 yr old will be reluctant to take your advice.

Also you shouldnt be helping anyone else to score youve to learn how to get by in the dating game by living through it and experiencing it, there are no short cuts and besides you dont need it at 14, youve got your whole life ahead of you..

Both you and the OP...

Exactlt... Well said.:)

CuttieKitty15
Oct 1, 2010, 09:06 PM
Sorry can't help 'cause I'm in the same bind as well. All the sites I've come across you have to be 18. Try getting real social in school and open up a little bit more, if your already like that then I can't help you an just discard this information. Bye!