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lildanbabe
Jun 28, 2004, 05:28 PM
There was this guy I was going out with and we broke up back in march! We went out for about 3months. I'm not the type of person to dwelll on someone but I don't know there was definitely something about this person and I can't put my finger on it... I don't know what to do were not friends anymore, haha because every time we did talk I was drunk"stupid acting" so its embarrassing to even think of talking to him. Then I find out last month... that while we were going out he cheated on me... with a good friend.wow I duno what to do? I want to forget it
sweety
Jul 3, 2004, 03:47 PM
Tell him u found out about him cheating on u and just question him and then its best not to stay in contact with a pr**k like him. Hes not even worth knowing after what he did to you because u were truful and fair to him so allow it and try to forget him.
mike145k
Jun 30, 2005, 09:47 PM
The proper actions to take is to have this person removed from your life as an important trustworthy friend,he has attacked your heart your feelings how can you ever trust this man again has he become less of a man in your eye's if you can answer yes to this then its over let it be
shenda
Jul 3, 2005, 09:40 PM
In order to forget, you must replace the current thought with a more powerful thought... exchange it for something more pleasant, more desired and then put forth effort and action unto your new endeavor. As far as the old b/f and the backstabbing friend... forgive them and move on. You solely, hold the power to forget, you just do it. Mulling over it only keeps it alive, denying it only tears you up inside, so make the decision... choose to forget; more importantly, choose to love and respect you.
"A little wine is fine in its time, but a strong drink seems to make a pretty girl like you stink". Choose moderation, enjoy life, don't let another so-called friend reap the rewards of your good thing.
lickemlolly
Jul 4, 2005, 03:24 PM
There is a saying.. once a cheater always a cheater... yes you need to forget about this one... some people are just better off as friends... 3 months is not a long time... you have no ties to this person so it is just best if you not dwell on the matter.
Wildcat21
Jul 4, 2005, 04:40 PM
Cheaters will lalways cheat. These people are looking for an 'upgrade' - they MAY stay with you after the cheat - only because the yfind out they don't really care for the other person OR the other person used them.
YES - once a cheater always a cheater. They don't know any better and won't change.