Ok so I haven't had sex in like 2 years but I use to a good bit. I'm 21 and have had sex with my girlfriend and now all of a sudden I stay hard for like 10 minutes during foreplay and by the time sex starts I'm soft or over sensitive and end soon. I use to go for like 1-2 hours every time. Problem?

How long have you two been together?

It sounds like nerves, like you're over thinking things and that gets in the way.

Once something gets in your head, it's hard to let it go. Obviously you've been thinking about this, so every time you go to have sex, I'm sure it's on your mind, and your mind has a lot of power over your body.

Just relax, try to enjoy getting there. If it happens, great. If not, no big deal, there's always next time. :)

If you think there may be something medical going on, there's no reason not to go to the doctor, put your mind at ease.

you probably just need to get back into the swing of things, it'll go away:)

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