My husband and I have been separated since 2004. I don't know his location and would like to file abadonment against him we have two children. He does pay the bills and the house is in his name. I am not employed and just want to know how to get out of the marriage.

You will go to civil court and file for divorce, child custody, and child support and alimony.

*** how are you paying the bills if you don't work and he does not pay them?

You may use abandonment as the reason for the divorce.

Unless you got a child suppot order before, there is nothing due yet, until you file