I am 22 years old and have been with my boyfriend for 4 years we have lived together for 3 of them. For the last year are sex life has been minimal, but recently in the last 5 months not at all. I have tried everything, I caught him with porn and lots of videos from the internet I didn't really say anything about it instead tried to intergrate it into our sex life. It just made me even more upset when he watched the TV not me. He doesn't spend any time with his friends or even go out much. He works and comes home and plays video cames or watches TV. I have suggested activities to do ( not sexual) on a daily basis to bring some activity to our lives. I am attractive blond with big boobs. My boyfriend says I am over weight and I wear my clothes to small. I am not in deniale I am not overweight, why does he say these things? The girls in his porno our young looking(16) and very skinny Is he just not attracted to me anymore? What Could make him not ever want to have sex? Why does he never want to do anything?

I think that your boyfriend needs to grow up. Have you tried to mix it up sexually? Try different positions, and give him oral once in a while... maybe you can watch some porn and see what they do, and try to do similar things... I don't know why any guy would rather masturbate than have sex, especially from the way you sound... maybe he just needs to realize what this is doing to you. Have you talked to him about it? And how much do you love/like him?

Sounds like your boyfriend is very immature, video games, insulting you... try new things like get a playful outfits and make him breakfast or clean the house in them. Try new sexy, fun things that he would not expect from you. Remember you are beautiful no matter how big or how small you are. If he doesn't see it, think about all the people who would appriciate you.

I totally agree with mitexi get a french maid uniform and make him breackfast and clean the house in it. Make sure is very short ans don't wear any bra or panties under and make pretend you are cleaning and bend over in front of him. Suner or later he will give in unless he just lost interest in women.

Watching porn is an adiction, just like drugs or drinking.

And people like various size and shape people.

Now after 2 years of living together and going into 3 at times this is a serious time, along with the 7th year in that there is some times a bore factor or getting just too used to the same thing.

If he did not have an adiction many times things like positions, cosutmes or body paints can do many things.

But with an addition of the porn it is going to be a harder position. If you can get to family counseling to try and work on communication.

Most likely, he is keeping you so that he is not completely alone, but chooses porn to fill his sexual needs over you.

When a guy becomes addicted to porn, he starts to measure every woman's "porn potential", and whatever tastes he has at that moment - big boob, fat, skinny, milf, young - can only be satisfied by the porn he's watching. Once a guy becomes locked in this mindset, you will rarely "measure up".

Don't get me wrong - I love porn as much as the next guy, and porn often does fill a niche for guys in a committed relationship. But - When porn becomes a substitute for your wife or girlfriend, there's a problem.

I wouldn't want to be with someone that insulted and ignored me... and choose porn over me. I would flat out ask him - Do you want Internet porn and video games, or a hot blonde with big boobs for a girlfriend. You'll know what to do based on his answer...

All the above posts are correct in my opinion.. but who is he to base what you do on some people on a television who he hasn't even had contact with. Those people are over glamoured and pretty much not even human. Hes got a real live star in front of him and he can't manage to put down the remote to see that. You don't deserve to be put in that place.. you seem like the supportive type of girlfriend.. trying to fix the problem, but if he isn't into admiting that he has a problem.. is there really a point? You deserve someone who will love and care for you.. for your goddess being yourself.. not from what a porn obsessed guy thinks.