View Full Version : Should I call him now, after 4-6 months?
I43THfbbabe19
Jul 13, 2004, 06:11 PM
PLEASE HELP!
Should I call my ex now after 4-6 months? I realized I LOVE HIM and I don't know if I should call or not. What if I don't know what to say. Its been half a year! Please Help! :-/ Should I call or should I not? We were a great couple. He lives in Cali. And I in FL. PLEASE HELP! I LOVE HIM! IF I CALL WHAT SHOULD I SAY?! SHOULD I EVEN CALL??
XxKAM2xX
Jul 14, 2004, 11:41 AM
I think you should call him.. just tell him:
It took me a couple of months to realize I still love u.. and if he doesn't want to get back together with you.. just forget him.. and try to move on.. I no its hard.. ive tried an di got over him.. theres nothing wrong with just telling him.. its worse if he didn't no.. so just call him
Kelly*ann
I43THfbbabe19
Jul 14, 2004, 11:59 AM
But I mean half a year! Would he even remember me now? Since he lives in cali. Its just so hard. I'm so scared! Right now I have the comfort of knowing that I can call him anytime, but if I call and ruin things I took the risk of losing him forever. I mean once I heard his voice again it made my night, and if I could know that he's mine again and I'm his forever... it would make my life. And I know not many people can say that... but I can.
XxKAM2xX
Jul 14, 2004, 02:44 PM
Just tell him how you feel about him still.. he would rememeber you.. what guy would forget a girl.. what the worst that could happen.. maybe he still lieks you.. and is afraid to tell you.. you never no.. he might miss being with you.. and want to call you.. just call him.. and find out for sure.. you're really scared now.. but if he still likes you or wants to get back together you'll feel a lot better.. so just try to call him..
chicki
Jul 19, 2004, 11:47 AM
Yea.. I agree... just try to call him. But lets say the worst happens.and he doesn't like you anymore... before you say anything about how you feel... tell him that you hope that what you're about to say won't ruin anything that you have now.. I'm guessing you're still friends and let him know that your friendship means a lot to you. Then tell him how you feel. I don't see why telling him how you feel will ruin your friendship unless you start stalking him and being obsessed. Good luck and take care
Jahiem28
Jul 21, 2004, 06:55 PM
Hello I agree with everyone on this one. I'm going to give u a different approach. A lot can happen in this time frame. I would give him a call and ask him how he was doing and how life is treating him. Then let him know you was thinking about him and u would like to be his friend. See were the conversation goes from here. Calling someone after 4-6 months telling them I'm in love can tend to drive some people away or make them scare. Take it slow and try to restart the fire again GOOD LUCK!! Take care
I43THfbbabe19
Jul 31, 2004, 07:19 PM
What would I say?. what could I say? :-/