MGMadara
Jun 7, 2010, 02:34 PM
Hi all,
My girlfriend and I have known each other for a few years but have only been dating for about 4 months. We both feel that we love each other and both made promises a while back to only have sex with people that's we truly love and care about; but we both have different reasons for this. I have made it perfectly clear that I am ready to take that step and am hopeful she is too. The other day we wouldve done it but unfortunately I didn't have condum with me and we didn't do it(she was the one who initiated it, I didn't expect it at all). I kind of hinted a bit that I would like to try again soon but she talks as if we may never be in that situation again and its very discouraging.
I don't talk much about it because I know she will let that happen again when she's ready, but she seems completely indifferent about whether we have sex at all sometimes. I would really like to know why she seems avoidant and indifferent of that subject most of the time.
My girlfriend and I have known each other for a few years but have only been dating for about 4 months. We both feel that we love each other and both made promises a while back to only have sex with people that's we truly love and care about; but we both have different reasons for this. I have made it perfectly clear that I am ready to take that step and am hopeful she is too. The other day we wouldve done it but unfortunately I didn't have condum with me and we didn't do it(she was the one who initiated it, I didn't expect it at all). I kind of hinted a bit that I would like to try again soon but she talks as if we may never be in that situation again and its very discouraging.
I don't talk much about it because I know she will let that happen again when she's ready, but she seems completely indifferent about whether we have sex at all sometimes. I would really like to know why she seems avoidant and indifferent of that subject most of the time.