We have been going out for 3 months... the first month we been a reallygood couple, everything was all go.. then she started getting sad hurting herself. And we had a few arguments but we forgave and forgot.. now she's always sad. Always wanting to hurt herself and her friends think its all my fault and her friends don't like me... people say she changed. Even I did.. she hates heself now and I feel like its my fault... I want things to be happy again.. what should I do?
39 minutes ago - 4 days left to answer.

One to three months is not very long to know someone.

Is she currently seeking the help of a professional? Such as a counselor/therapist?

Have you asked her why she is sad?

One to three months is not very long to know someone.

Is she currently seeking the help of a professional? Such as a counselor/therapist?

Have you asked her why she is sad? she is getting some therapy because her moms making her? But she said she won't tell him/her anything. She doesn't listen to me