View Full Version : I am 15 and I'm dating an 11 yr old I like him very very much but do you think its wr
bubbleyum
May 25, 2010, 01:14 PM
I like him very very much but do you think its wrong
hheath541
May 25, 2010, 01:24 PM
Yes. The age gap at your ages is just too big. You're in high school. He's still in elementary school. In three years you'll be an adult, and he STILL won't be in high school, yet.
If you want to hang out and talk, that's fine. Dating just isn't reasonable at your ages, though.
Aurora_Bell
May 25, 2010, 01:51 PM
I agree with hheath, the age gap is much to large at this age in your lives. I wonder what you have in common with an 11 year old?
Alty
May 25, 2010, 03:06 PM
My son is 11, no way is he ready to date, much less a 15 year old.
When you're an adult 4 years age difference is nothing. At your age, it's huge, may as well be a lifetime.
In other words, yes, it's wrong.
MadisonKnudsen
May 25, 2010, 03:30 PM
Umm yeah that's weird why not just be best friends with the kid? Date someone who's your age
ohsohappy
May 25, 2010, 03:59 PM
Yeah you should tell him it's a bad idea, he's still little.
friend4u178
May 25, 2010, 06:39 PM
i like him very very much but do you think its wrong
Yes it's wrong :rolleyes:
Just be his friend and let him grow up without all the drama's dating brings , there's plenty of time for him to do that later.
Fr_Chuck
May 25, 2010, 07:23 PM
Yes, completely wrong
aimee_tt
May 25, 2010, 07:30 PM
Become his friend. If in 7 years you still like each other try then. He will be 18 and be old enough to make decisions for himself.
He is too young for you now. Let him grow up as well as yourself.
Yes, completely wrong
I agree I think there both to young to date.
paxxxx
Apr 22, 2012, 02:33 PM
I have a crush on a 11yr old and I'm 15 and I do think it's a bit weird and you like me shod waite for him to get a bit older but the truth is that you can't control who you fall for so it's a hard one :/ do what ever feels right!
Alty
Apr 22, 2012, 08:04 PM
I have a crush on a 11yr old and im 15 and i do think its a bit weird nd u like me shod waite for him to get a bit older but the truth is that you can't controll who u fall for so its a hard one :/ jus do wat ever feels right!
That's not only bad advice, but illegal advice. An 11 year old cannot "do whatever feels right (yes, I corrected the spelling)". An 11 year old is a child, and as a child has to do what his/her parents say is okay. Most responsible parents don't allow their 11 year old child to date.
Also, you can control what you do, and you may think this is love, but really, at 11 you have no idea. I know you think you do, but you really don't. Kids that date at 11 don't have long lasting relationships, because they're not ready to have a real romantic relationship. They're just kids. Kids shouldn't play adult games, because they have no idea what they're getting into.
I'd suggest that you concentrate more on your education, learn to spell properly, and leave the boys alone until you're old enough to know what you're doing. Of course I'm sure you'll disagree, because you're a child, and you know everything (sarcasm font engaged).