nicwinston
May 14, 2010, 10:17 AM
I apologize that this is going to be a long post, but I was hoping that if some of the more knowledgeable posters here would read all the way through, and I gave you all relevant info, you'd have some good advice for me.
My husband and I have a 2 year old beagle. When we got him, we did everything the books tell you to do, we crated him while we were at work, made sure we took him out frequently, took him to a puppy class... and he did well for awhile, but he never took to the crate. My sister and my mom have dogs that are very happy with their crates. Ours just never liked it. I came to the conclusion that some dogs are crate dogs and some aren't and ours isn't. Any dog experts reading this are probably either shaking their heads or laughing hysterically. Yes, I do believe I was wrong about that. We stopped crating him (mainly because at the time we lived in a condo with downstairs neighbors, and he would howl for who knew how long while we were gone and he was in the crate). So mostly to keep from offending the neighbors, we let him have the run of half of the house.
Cut to 2 years later... we have since moved into our own house where the neighbor problem is no longer an issue (about a year ago). My husband and I both work daytime, and usually leave the house around 9:00, 9:30. One of us is usually home before 5:00. During that time, he basically has the run of the house. I keep bathroom doors closed and a couple of bedroom doors closed, but the kitchen/dining/living area is all open and really impossible to close off. He goes out in the morning of course, and first thing when we get home in the afternoon, when I take him for a walk down the street. Then a couple more times before we go to bed at around midnight. But he will frequently go into our bedroom (while we're home, even if it hasn't been long since he went out) and pee on the floor, on the door, on the legs of the bed... if he can get into the bathroom he just pees on the floor. But in the bedroom it's always on something else. (He never poops in the house... just pees.) My solution has been to just keep that bedroom door closed so that he can't get into either room, because he rarely does it in any other room of the house. (I think he goes in the living room when we aren't there. Now and then I'll find a spot on the side of a chair or ottoman.)
This isn't the only thing he does that's a problem. I admit it's my fault, I've gotten a little lazy with him and haven't worked as hard on his behavior as I should. Lately, he has started taking things under the bed with him... a hanger, an article of clothing, anything he can find, and chewing it to pieces. Again, I've just tried to limit his access to the bedroom when I'm not in there with him. But my husband forgets to close doors. Last night, I fell asleep on the couch, and when I got up to go to bed, I found that he had dragged an entire package of bathroom tissue out of our closet, and chewed at least some of almost every roll to pieces. (Of course I was upset with the dog, but I was also upset with my husband, who just can't seem to remember to shut the closet door. He says we shouldn't have to shut the door, the dog should learn not to chew things. Which I completely agree with... but in the meantime, can't you just shut the door?)
The other thing he does (the dog, not the husband) is growl. It's only in the mornings, from what I've seen. If he's on the bed (yes he sleeps in our bed) and I'm on my way out for work, if I lean over to give my husband a goodbye kiss, the dog will growl at me. If he's under the bed (which really seems to be his favorite place) and I get too close, he'll growl at me. I thought he was just being protective of my husband, who plays with him more than I do. But he does the same thing if it's me in the bed. I think maybe he thinks that's his territory somehow? I don't know. He doesn't growl at any other time. I can pet him or touch his food while he's eating and he's fine.
Also, he hasn't been neutered... because he's the first pure-bred dog I've had, and I wanted to breed him. Now I'm not so sure if I shouldn't just get him fixed. I hate the thought of never seeing one of his puppies, but if it would help his behavior...
I'm not sure where I went wrong, but somewhere along the way, I think I must have let him get the upper hand. He's kind of our baby. He lays on the couch next to me, he sleeps in our bed, he gets lots of love and attention... he is very spoiled I guess. After reading through some of the other posts here, I'm leaning toward re-instituting the crate while we're not home, and maybe some while we're there, until he's able to stop peeing on the floor and stop chewing things. Like starting completely from scratch, a doggy-boot camp.
My question, I guess, is, is this a good idea? Should I start first thing tomorrow (when we'll be gone for a few hours) with putting him in the crate? Should I start tonight when I get home? Should I get him neutered?
Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!
My husband and I have a 2 year old beagle. When we got him, we did everything the books tell you to do, we crated him while we were at work, made sure we took him out frequently, took him to a puppy class... and he did well for awhile, but he never took to the crate. My sister and my mom have dogs that are very happy with their crates. Ours just never liked it. I came to the conclusion that some dogs are crate dogs and some aren't and ours isn't. Any dog experts reading this are probably either shaking their heads or laughing hysterically. Yes, I do believe I was wrong about that. We stopped crating him (mainly because at the time we lived in a condo with downstairs neighbors, and he would howl for who knew how long while we were gone and he was in the crate). So mostly to keep from offending the neighbors, we let him have the run of half of the house.
Cut to 2 years later... we have since moved into our own house where the neighbor problem is no longer an issue (about a year ago). My husband and I both work daytime, and usually leave the house around 9:00, 9:30. One of us is usually home before 5:00. During that time, he basically has the run of the house. I keep bathroom doors closed and a couple of bedroom doors closed, but the kitchen/dining/living area is all open and really impossible to close off. He goes out in the morning of course, and first thing when we get home in the afternoon, when I take him for a walk down the street. Then a couple more times before we go to bed at around midnight. But he will frequently go into our bedroom (while we're home, even if it hasn't been long since he went out) and pee on the floor, on the door, on the legs of the bed... if he can get into the bathroom he just pees on the floor. But in the bedroom it's always on something else. (He never poops in the house... just pees.) My solution has been to just keep that bedroom door closed so that he can't get into either room, because he rarely does it in any other room of the house. (I think he goes in the living room when we aren't there. Now and then I'll find a spot on the side of a chair or ottoman.)
This isn't the only thing he does that's a problem. I admit it's my fault, I've gotten a little lazy with him and haven't worked as hard on his behavior as I should. Lately, he has started taking things under the bed with him... a hanger, an article of clothing, anything he can find, and chewing it to pieces. Again, I've just tried to limit his access to the bedroom when I'm not in there with him. But my husband forgets to close doors. Last night, I fell asleep on the couch, and when I got up to go to bed, I found that he had dragged an entire package of bathroom tissue out of our closet, and chewed at least some of almost every roll to pieces. (Of course I was upset with the dog, but I was also upset with my husband, who just can't seem to remember to shut the closet door. He says we shouldn't have to shut the door, the dog should learn not to chew things. Which I completely agree with... but in the meantime, can't you just shut the door?)
The other thing he does (the dog, not the husband) is growl. It's only in the mornings, from what I've seen. If he's on the bed (yes he sleeps in our bed) and I'm on my way out for work, if I lean over to give my husband a goodbye kiss, the dog will growl at me. If he's under the bed (which really seems to be his favorite place) and I get too close, he'll growl at me. I thought he was just being protective of my husband, who plays with him more than I do. But he does the same thing if it's me in the bed. I think maybe he thinks that's his territory somehow? I don't know. He doesn't growl at any other time. I can pet him or touch his food while he's eating and he's fine.
Also, he hasn't been neutered... because he's the first pure-bred dog I've had, and I wanted to breed him. Now I'm not so sure if I shouldn't just get him fixed. I hate the thought of never seeing one of his puppies, but if it would help his behavior...
I'm not sure where I went wrong, but somewhere along the way, I think I must have let him get the upper hand. He's kind of our baby. He lays on the couch next to me, he sleeps in our bed, he gets lots of love and attention... he is very spoiled I guess. After reading through some of the other posts here, I'm leaning toward re-instituting the crate while we're not home, and maybe some while we're there, until he's able to stop peeing on the floor and stop chewing things. Like starting completely from scratch, a doggy-boot camp.
My question, I guess, is, is this a good idea? Should I start first thing tomorrow (when we'll be gone for a few hours) with putting him in the crate? Should I start tonight when I get home? Should I get him neutered?
Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much!