Hey,
My name is crystal, and I'm just a 15 year old girl, I'm looking for my real dad, see my mom ran off, away from her family, and got raped by this guy who is apparently my dad, then my mom went to jail for drugs and then she had me even when she was police custody. She said she did drugs while I was inside of her, because of that I was born with a hole in my heart, and I was born missing a bone in my arm and in both of my thumbs, my mom had to go to court to fight over me, my dad was never married to my mother, because who would marry someone who raped them, but any ways, people told me I should give up my dream of finding my real dad after doing what he did to my mom, but all my life I've had this dream to find him, I don't car if he doesn't want me, I just need to know who he is so I can see who could have been my father if he made the right choices. And see what my life could have been like to have him around. I want to show people I don't lisen to those who tell my to give up my dreams and show them I left people get to me, I need your help. I believe if you change one persons life you can change the world! Help me, or at least pray for me!

Crystal,
My name is Zach, I'm 18 and I don't have any idea who my dad is either. My mom got pregnant with me at a young age and soon after she found out she was pregnant my biological father left her. I was about 2 months old when she met my step dad and he has been my dad for the last 18 years. I'm sorry to hear about your disabilities, I can't imagine what life would be like living like that. My sister who is 13 was born with a hole in her heart also but it wasn't because of drugs. She is healed and fine now. Crystal NEVER give up on your dream of finding him. I don't know what my real dads name is or what he looks like or anything because my mom refuses to talk about it. I learned a couple of years ago from my best friend kayla that no matter how hard things may seem they can always get better but you have to keep trying. You are heading in the right direction in showing people that you don't listen to people who tell you to give up your dream so continue to prove to them that you are not giving up NO MATTER WHAT. There is always hope as long as you believe. I have been trying to find out anything about my real dad but I haven't been able to yet but I'm not giving up either so I am in the same boat as you in a way don't ever give up crystal I believe in you and I will be there to support you you are exactly right in satying that if you change one persons life you can change the world so continue to believe that too. I'm taking it that you believe in Jesus because you said "help me, or at least pray for me" I will be praying for you talk to God like he was you dad call him daddy when you talk to him... he hears you every time you cry out and is there to wipe your tears away you just have to let him God never gave up on us and he's not giong to so don't give up on him. He will see you through. NEVER NEVER NEVER EVER GIVE UP CRYSTAL I BELIEVE IN YOU :)

My Name Is Timothy, My mom was a drug addict had me in prison too, She refuses to tell me who my father is, SHE WAS A WHORE And A prostitute My dad could be 25 different guys I don't have nothing I'm 9 YEARS OLD