I like a guy, but everyone doesn't approve. My friends are all saying he's lame and I should waste my time, and so are people in my family, but in my opinnion their only saying that because of the way he dresses. Yes he smokes. But I can live past that. I like who he is, his personality is so amazong. But I'm not sure what to do.

What ages are you both? How does he dress and what makes him 'lame'?

Why does he smoke?

Sometimes, the people around us can see things more clearly that we can. If his personality is so great then invite him home for dinner, so everyone can get to know him - but tell him not to smoke.

Don't let your friends and family decide on who you like. You like who you like no big deal. Everyone's going to have to get over it. If you like him you like him. No worries

Who you like is your choice, but why would every one you know not like him? Maybe they know something you don't?