Hiyyaa I am 13 years old and I have a boyfriend and he is 16 years old.I love him very very much and I feel like I would die if I lost him :( but people keep calling him a kiddlyfidler or a pedo but he has never pressured me into anything and promises he will wait till I am ready. The most we have ever done together is snogged but it just happened and I made the first move because he was scared in case I wasn't comfortable with him kissing me first but obv I am. My parents know but at the start I didn't even want my parents know I was dating then they seen me and my boyfriend hugging so I just decided to tell them but I said he was 14 because he does look 14. That's how old I thought he was at the start when I fancyed him :L. then my dad found out he was 16 and went mad and told me to end it or the police were getting involved so I told him it was finished because of my dad and the boy said can we still go out but keep it a secret please? So I said OK because I don't fink id be able to live without you anyway. So we dated for another week but kept it a secret. Then after that weekmy dad said I could see him again as long as there's no more secrets and I behave and I have been keeping those promises. My family said its OK but I still want to know what all yous think ?

Why would you want to date a 16 year old guy if you are only 13? There is a huge maturity difference between you two, plus the guy must be some sort of an immature freak if he want to date a girl so young. (no offense)

I think it might be even illegal in some states for him to touch you... And you wouldn't want him to get into any trouble would you...

How long have you two been dating? I think it might be best if you stop your relationship. He is a guy and he might start wanting things that you don't want and start pressuring.

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well we have been dating 8 weeks and 3 days :) and he has already promised me that he will not pressure me and he isny an imature freak :rolleyes: he is actually the nicest guy you could meet :) My parents really like him and I don't live in any state I live in the uk so I don't know iff it is legal or illegal for me and him to date but my parents say its OK aslong as nothing happens and he has promise me and them that he won't until I am ready and iff I want to :D x

does age actually matter in a relationship ? Cos I don't care about age with me(13) and my boyfriend (16). But people at school seem to think it matters but does it really iff you love each other and promise nothing will happen until yous are BOTH ready not just one of yous? And iff the parents all know the age and that ? Please help me figure this out ?

It doesn't matter at all. There are people with way larger age gap than you two.

Like they say; age ain't nothing but a number.

Besides, you're too young to know what love is, no offense at all.

There's a HUGE difference between 13 and 16. At your age, even a year can make a big difference.

Look at it this way. In 2 years he'll be 18. You'll be 15. If you does ANYTHING even REMOTELY sexual with you after that point, then he can get charged with statutory rape and end up being listed as a rapist and child molester for the rest of his life. He will have to tell the police where he lives, and he won't be allowed to live in certain places. He'll be denied jobs. He won't be able to go into any career that involves children.

It doesn't matter that you SAY nothing will happen. All it takes his someone seeing you guys kiss after his 18th birthday.


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taaam agrees : yeah of course, but it also depends on the country you live in.


I'm assuming they're in the U.S. from the language used.

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well we have been dating 8 weeks and 3 days :) and he has already promised me that he will not pressure me and tbh he isny an imature freak :rolleyes: he is actually the nicest guy you could meet :) My parents really like him and i dont live in any state i live in the uk so i dunno iff it is legal or illegal for me and him to date but my parents say its ok aslong as nothing happens and he has promise me and them that he wont until i am ready and iff i want to :D x

does age actually matter in a relationship ? cos tbh i dont care about age with me(13) and my boyfriend (16). but people at school seem to think it matters but does it really iff you love each other and promise nothin will happen untill yous are BOTH ready not just one of yous? and iff the parents all know the age and that ? please help me figure this out ?

I know you might not understand this but I will try to explain it. When he says he's not going to pressure you. He already IS pressuring you. Its already on his mind. And it may be in the back of your mind. That is not a good thing for either of you. You should be dating boys closer to your age group if at all. 3 years at your level is very great. You do understand he is almost an adult right? Is that what you want to be known as? A young girl that dates adults? Don't let yourself be fooled. Better to stop things BEFORE they go to far.

Why in gods name are you thinking about dating, and 'snogging' at the age of 13? I don't think I had a boyfriend till I was 15! For one thing You aren't of age of consent and you can get him in a lot of trouble, and your 13, you have YEARS and YEARS to find a boyfriend. And believe me hunny your not in love.
Your younger than my little brother is! Im sorry but it just makes me sick.

Ok, no idea of what "snogging" is but anyway,

1. no relationship is good if it is based on lies, ( lying to parents)

2. 8 weeks and talk already went sexual about "waiting" till ready, since that should be years in the future, since legal age is at least 16 almost anyway and even 18 in some places.
So the fact it was even discussed with a 13 year old is a big red flag that it is already on their mind

Well I don't know what Planet you live on but on earth people start dating and snogging when they are as young as 10. My first boyfriend was when I was 8 but obv we never kissed but my first kiss was when I was 12 so people start young now a days. And I know I'm not at the age of consent and I know he can get into trouble but iff nothing happens then he won't be in trouble now will he ? And I don't want to wait years and years to find a boyfriend iff I only want one and I have him and yeah he might be 16 but I love him and believe me hunny I am in love and I am different from youlittle brother so... and how can dating and snogging make you sick :S?

Well i dunno what Planet you live on but on earth people start dating and snogging when they are as young as 10. My first boyfriend was when i was 8 but obv we never kissed but my first kiss was when i was 12 so people start young now a days. and i know im not at the age of consent and i know he can get into trouble but iff nothing happens then he wont be in trouble now will he ? and i dont want to wait years and years to find a boyfriend iff i only want one and i have him and yeah he might be 16 but i love him and believe me hunny i am in love and i am different from youlittle brother soo..... and how can dating and snogging make you sick :S?

In many places what your doing already could be illegal. The age difference is too great at this time.

Here is just part of it.

The Act came into force on 2 July 1960, and Section 1 made it an offence to commit or incite an "act of gross indecency" with somebody under the age of fourteen. Anybody who commits such an offence was liable for imprisonment for up to two years on conviction after indictment.

In the eyes of the law. That would be "snooging"

OK you 2 have not been dating long enough and your definitely not mature enough to be 'in love' you may be 'in lust' but those are 2 completely DIFFERENT things. A 13 year old kissing/making out with someone (not just you but ANY 13 year old) makes me sick to think about. You definitely aren't at a proper maturity level to even be doing that kind of stuff. And your 'boy friend' says he'll wait? Haven't you ever heard: "guys only want one thing"? If the conversation has already gone to "oh i'll wait for when your ready" clearly that's what he wants. I am 19, MY time isn't that different from YOUR time. If people in my school at the age of 8 - 13, were 'snogging' each other I would find it rather disgusting. And my brother may be a bit different from you but he knows what's right and what's wrong.
Think of it this way:
Your dating a guy 3 years older than you.
So would you think it would be OK for YOU to date a 10 year old? Not likely.

OK you 2 have not been dating long enough and your definitely not mature enough to be 'in love' you may be 'in lust' but those are 2 completely DIFFERENT things. A 13 year old kissing/making out with someone (not just you but ANY 13 year old) makes me sick to think about. You definitely arent at a proper maturity level to even be doing that kind of stuff. And your 'boy friend' says he'll wait? Havent you ever heard: "guys only want one thing" ?? If the conversation has already gone to "oh i'll wait for when your ready" clearly thats what he wants. I am 19, MY time isnt that different from YOUR time. If people in my school at the age of 8 - 13, were 'snogging' eachother i would find it rather disgusting. And my brother may be a bit different from you but he knows whats right and whats wrong.
Think of it this way:
Your dating a guy 3 years older than you.
So would you think it would be ok for YOU to date a 10 year old? Not likely.



Well sweetie we are in LOVE <3 and you don't live in on planet earth iff you think 13 year old and that don't snog and that its discusting because its actual kind of NORMAL! And yeah I've her boys only want one thing but he has told me he doesn't and the reason the conversation came up is because I brought it up not him he had never gave it a thought it was me who wanted to know iff he would wait because I would do *it* with him iff he wanted because he is like sooo mintit and I want to but I know I can't because of age diff and he doesn't want to :( and I know I'm dating a boy 3 years older and I wouldn't go with a 10 year old my my friend did before when she was 13 and he was 10 and now she is 19 and he is 16 and they are still together witch proves love is real and that iff your partner loves tou then they will wait for you to be ready because my friend donr it and my boyfriend promises :D

13 is too young to be dating and certainly should not be dating a 16 year old.
If he is telling you he'll wait until you're ready and is kissing you, he is wanting to get in your pants. That is the only reason a 16 year old boy would mess with a girl your age. He ought to be ashamed of himself.
There is a big difference between a 13 year and a 16 year old.

13 is too young to be dating and certainly should not be dating a 16 year old.
If he is telling you he'll wait until you're ready and is kissing you, he is wanting to get in your pants. That is the only reason a 16 year old boy would mess with a girl your age. He ought to be ashamed of himself.
There is a big difference between a 13 year and a 16 year old.


But the only reason he said he will wait is because I brought the subject up :o and I only brought it up because I want to do it but he doesn't :(:) and how is 13 too young to start dating people have started younger than me and have lasted for years :D And why is 13 and 16 a big difference when 17 and 20 isn't... look at it this way there is 3 years between a 13 year old and a 16 year old and there is also 3 years between a 17 year old and a 20 year old :/ so why does age matter now but not matter then? :confused:

It doesn't matter as much later because, when its 18 and 21, both are consenting adults! And while there is still a maturity gap, its much less than the maturity gap between a 13 year old and a 16 year old.

And brit is right. You're in lust, hun. You think you're in love and ready for sex? OK. Are you also ready to tell your mom you need the number for the gyno because you're sexually active and need your pap smear? Because that's what happens when you start having sex. You need to make sure you and your partner stay healthy. You need to go in for pap smears and should regularly be screened for stds. Some stds show no obvious symptoms so its very important to be tested before they do any long term damage to your reproductive system. And are you ready to talk to your dr about all of your birth control options? Do you even know what the most effective forms are? And how to use them? (if you were older I'd just tell you.) and only abstinence is 100% effective. So are you ready for what if your birth control fails? What if you do get pregnant? I know, it won't happen to you... go ask any of the teenage mothers around this site if they thought it would happen to them. I'm pretty sure they didn't. Then ask them how easy it is raising a child while finishing school.

You should not be dating a 16 year old. He has no business being interested in you. There's a reason you are called jail bait.

But the only reason he said he will wait is because i brought the subject up :o and i only brought it up because tbh i want to do it but he doesn't :(:) and how is 13 too young to start dating people have started younger than me and have lasted for years :D And why is 13 and 16 a big difference when 17 and 20 isnt...look at it this way there is 3 years between a 13 year old and a 16 year old and there is also 3 years between a 17 year old and a 20 year old :/ so why does age matter now but not matter then ??:confused:

There is a big difference between a 16 year old boy and a 13 year old girl. You are barely a teen.
Hormones, girl! Yours are kicking in. You need to stay away from him and him from you. Any 16 year with scruples would not be messing with a 13 year old.
You are infatuated and flattered and your hormones are working big time. That and a 16 year old boy is not a good mix.

Listen to what everybody is saying... they are saying it because it's the truth. I'm sorry but the truth hurts sometimes. Everything they are saying is nothing but the truth. If u really want to date find a guy your age

Well her own comments show the immature nature that she has. A child thinking they are grown. And actual english would be nice also. The boy is the only one with any sense, he does not want to be roomed with Bubba in jail I guess.

I wonder what type of home or mother a child with so much disrespect comes from

I agree with justcurious

Are you really ready to tell you mom you need to go on birth control and that you need to start buying condoms? Are you ready to go get a pap smear? (do you even know what that IS?) Are you in fact ready to take on the responsibility of a child? Because that's what sex leads to 'sweetie'! If your already talking to guys about sex, I honestly cannot imagine what your life is going to be like when you my age. I know girls who had children at the age of 17 and their lives are now all about their baby, NO education, NO life, because they have to take responsibility and deal with their actions.

Also 17 and 20 year olds are around the same maturity level. You on the other hand are just BEGINNING to mature. And by the looks of how you act on here you seem extremely immature, extremely naïve, and you really have NO CLUE what you are getting into.

Your boyfriend may 'promise' now, but promises break, and do you really think that a 16 year old boy, with plenty of mature, attractive growing girls are going to be committed to a 13 year old. I highly doubt it.

I'm honestly not trying to be rude or mean, what I have to say MAY seem harsh, but it's important you listen, before you make a life changing mistake.

There is a big difference between a 16 year old boy and a 13 year old girl. You are barely a teen.
Hormones, girl! yours are kicking in. You need to stay away from him and him from you. Any 16 year with scruples would not be messing with a 13 year old.
You are infatuated and flattered and your hormones are working big time. That and a 16 year old boy is not a good mix.



No there isn't. The difference is EXACTLY the same as a 17 year old and 20 year old but that doesn't seam to be bad :S which I donot understand :S:/ I know I have hormones and that mines are just kicking in but I cannot stay away from him because iff I stay away fromhim I feel like my life is a mess and that I may as well kill myself :( because my life is nothing without him :( and I need him

Well her own comments show the immature nature that she has. A child thinking they are grown. And actual english would be nice also. The boy is the only one with any sense, he does not want to be roomed with Bubba in jail I guess.

I wonder what type of home or mother a child with so much disrespect comes from


Omg I use actual english :) and I come from a GREAT home and an amazing mum and how the do I have a lot of disrespect :mad:

I agree with justcurious

Are you really ready to tell you mom you need to go on birth control and that you need to start buying condoms? Are you ready to go get a pap smear? (do you even know what that IS?) Are you in fact ready to take on the responsibility of a child? Because thats what sex leads to 'sweetie'! If your already talking to guys about sex, i honestly cannot imagine what your life is going to be like when you my age. I know girls who had children at the age of 17 and their lives are now all about their baby, NO education, NO life, because they have to take responsibility and deal with their actions.

Also 17 and 20 year olds are around the same maturity level. You on the other hand are just BEGINNING to mature. And by the looks of how you act on here you seem extremely immature, extremely naive, and you really have NO CLUE what you are getting into.

Your boyfriend may 'promise' now, but promises break, and do you really think that a 16 year old boy, with plenty of mature, attractive growing girls are going to be committed to a 13 year old. I highly doubt it.

im honestly not trying to be rude or mean, what i have to say MAY seem harsh, but it's important you listen, before you make a life changing mistake.



Well I already have condoms and its too late now because I am pregnant :S and I don't care it just means that I have a gawjuss boyfriend and a gawjuss baby and I am moving out because my dad doesn't want to see me because I betraded him so I am moving in with my gawjuss boyfriend :D

I have a few years and life experience on you so I think I know what I'm talking about. I hve been there done that and have raised a daughter that has been there.

A 17 year old is approaching adulthood as is a 20 year old. You are barely in your teens and whether you believe it or not the maturity level between a 13 year old and a 16 year old is vast. Whether you want to believe it or not, this 16 year old boy has no business messing with you.

This kind of "I can't live without him" crush you have on this boy is typical for a 13 year old. You will live without him and I can guarantee there will be someone else you'll think you can't live without as well.
You want to be told this is OK and I don't think anyone here is going to tell you that, so you may want to listen to the age old, mature advice you have received.
You have asked us what we think and you have our answer, whether you like it or not.

well i already have condoms and tbh its too late now because i am pregnant :S and tbh i dont care it just means that i have a gawjuss bf and a gawjuss baby and i am moving out because my dad doesnt want to see me because i betraded him so i am moving in with my gawjuss bf :D


Well that's too bad. This boy got what he wanted from you. He got in your pants.
I hope this is not true though because a 13 year old pregnant girl without the support of her family is not going to be fun.

Well if you where 18 you couldn't

Yea, condoms can still break and plus your clearly still only a baby yourself. He might leave you.

So all this business about him saying he is not going to touch you until you are ready was just a lie, or is your being pregnant a lie?

Either way you are playing a dangerous game young lady.

Homegirl50 that's good to ask. But I'm just asking is this entire post a lie.

And don't angry please I have a heart.

Homegirl50 thats good to ask. But im just asking is this entire post a lie.

And don't angry please i have a heart.


Having a heart has nothing to do with it - you are out of line.

The OP has posted several different versions of her life on at least two different threads and is barely literate.

Please don't criticize people who are doing their best to separate the truth from the lies and giving advice based on life experience.

Homegirl50 thats good to ask. But im just asking is this entire post a lie.

And don't angry please i have a heart.
I have a heart too, I am a mom, but I also have a brain.
This young lady's post is too conflicting and has too many contradictions, so I'm wondering how much of it is true.

Me too, because if all of this is a lie, why did she create this post for.

There are people who love attention, people who see this a being a funny thing to do, and there are those who are just confused people.
I'm not saying it is a lie, I'm simply questioning some of it. She started saying one thing and then there has been sex and she's pregnant. So unless she knows something we don't know and she got pregnant a couple of days ago, it's all rather suspect.

me too, because if all of this is a lie, why did she create this post for.


I don't know - why did you post this? It's not a question and you're 16, living with your parents. I don't see how you are making a decision to move or note move.

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/moving-storage/miss-home-466551.html#post2326125

It's the same thing - no one knows why anyone does things.

As far as you having a heart and (apparently) thinking no one else does - sometimes you also have to use your brain.

Love,
How is it that less than a week ago you swore there was nothing more than kissing going on and you two were going to wait until you were older and ready for sex. And now today you're pregnant? One part of your story has to be a lie. Which is it? If you were a virgin a week ago there is no possible way you could be pregnant and actually know that you are today. Now I'm thinking you really must not have had an sex education at all yet. So I'm being entirely serious when I say this, let me explain to you how making babies most commonly goes...

When you have sex, his sperm can live inside your body for up to nearly a week. So you may not conceive the day you have sex. You may not actually conceive until about 5 days later. And then its just a waiting game. Some home pregnancy tests claim to be able to give you accurate test results up to 5 days before your missed period. But even with those ones, that still at least a few weeks of waiting and even if the first test is negative, its recommended that you take another one if you actually miss your period. And sometimes even when you've missed your period, you still have to wait another week to take a test. And sometimes there's other reasons your period is late. So you spend weeks worrying that you're pregnant and being stressed out, which can also make your period late-the stress.

So that's how I know that either you weren't a virgin and lied to us before about there being no sex. Or you're lying to us now and you don't know if you're really pregnant or not. Or you're lying and still a virgin and there's no way you're pregnant.

And just in case you are pregnant, your father can't just kick you out. If he did, I'd recommend calling child services. Although I have to warn you, if it all came to that your boyfriend has a good shot at being arrested for statutory rape because the authorities would have to get involved to help you make sure you and your baby got the proper care and adequate housing (even if its consensual, in the eyes of the law, it's a form of rape because you are considered to be too young to consent to it. Like it or not, that's the law).

And what does gawjuss mean?? That does not sound like english...

Well that's too bad. This boy got what he wanted from you. He got in your pants.
I hope this is not true though because a 13 year old pregant girl without the support of her family is not going to be fun.


I have suport frommy family :) my boyfriends mum and dad :D they are like my new parents and they are amazing :) and he didn't get what he wanted :/ I got what I wanted :)

So all this business about him saying he is not going to touch you until you are ready was just a lie, or is your being pregnant a lie?

Either way you are playing a dangerous game young lady.



Well the him not touching me wasn't a lie because we were at his and like it was just the 2 of us because his parents were out shopping :) so we were watching a dvd and we started talking about a few rumours that's going around school and he said imnot like that babe I wouldn't touch you that way until you are old enough then a little while later he said he would do ANYTHING for me so I said would you sleep with me and he said ehmm no because of the age and I'm like please babe and I leaned inand kissed him and I kind of took it frm there ;)

Wait you wanted to get pregnant, why?

There are people who love attention, people who see this a being a funny thing to do, and there are those who are just confused people.
I'm not saying it is a lie, I'm simply questioning some of it. She started out saying one thing and then there has been sex and she's pregnant. So unless she knows something we don't know and she got pregnant a couple of days ago, it's all rather suspect.



Listen I posted this because I was wondering peoples opinions and none of this is a lie. I found out yesterday I was pregnant because I had actually slept with him the day after I posted this thingy :o so I'm sorry that yous all think this is a lie but its not .

Wow. So in less than a week, you lost your virginity, confirmed that you're pregnant, and moved in with your boyfriends family almost over night and aren't even showing any signs of concern about finishing school, having money for the baby stuff, hospital bills and visits, or your ex best friend (from your other thread) beating you up. Is that right? I'm still not buying this. I think you're making up at least half, if not all of this stuff up.

It's impossible to find out you're pregnant 3 days after having sex.

Well the him not touching me wasnt a lie because we were at his and like it was just the 2 of us cos his parents were out shopping :) so we were watching a dvd and we started talking about a few rumours thats going around school and he said imnot like that babe i wouldnt touch you that way untill you are old enough then a little while later he said he would do ANYTHING for me so i said would you sleep with me and he said ehmm no cos of the age and im like please babe and i leaned inand kissed him and i kinda took it frm there ;)

You snogged him!! :eek: I don't even know what that means but it sure sounds like you were naughty. :eek::eek: You need to be grounded for the rest of your life or your mom needs to warm your backside. :rolleyes:

I second that justcurious55 and hheath541

I have support from my family :) my boyfriends mum and dad :D they are like my new parents and they are amazing tbh :) and he didn't get what he wanted :/ i got what i wanted :)

You are 13 years old and you wanted sex and a baby? That is really bright.
And his parents are so nice, they are amazing, yeah, they don't want their 16 year old son going to jail for impregnating a 13 year old. You have just done your own parents who did not want you seeing this boy to begin with a this service. You betrayed their trust and now you have new cool parents. I hope all of this is a lie, because if it isn't, I find it really sad.

You keep on thinking he didn't get what he wanted. You are 13, you don't even know what you want, but you best believe he knew what he wanted, but I'll bet he didn't want a 13 year old pregnant girl friend and how long do you think he's going to want you around?
You are not even mature enough to realize that you have done a very reckless thing and have brought an innocent child into this (if this is in fact true). You have no clue the implications here.

love,
how is it that less than a week ago you swore there was nothing more than kissing going on and you two were going to wait until you were older and ready for sex. and now today you're pregnant? one part of your story has to be a lie. which is it? if you were a virgin a week ago there is no possible way you could be pregnant and actually know that you are today. now i'm thinking you really must not have had an sex education at all yet. so i'm being entirely serious when i say this, let me explain to you how making babies most commonly goes...

when you have sex, his sperm can live inside your body for up to nearly a week. so you may not conceive the day you have sex. you may not actually conceive until about 5 days later. and then its just a waiting game. some home pregnancy tests claim to be able to give you accurate test results up to 5 days before your missed period. but even with those ones, that still at least a few weeks of waiting and even if the first test is negative, its recommended that you take another one if you actually miss your period. and sometimes even when you've missed your period, you still have to wait another week to take a test. and sometimes there's other reasons why your period is late. so you spend weeks worrying that you're pregnant and being stressed out, which can also make your period late-the stress.

so that's how i know that either you weren't a virgin and lied to us before about there being no sex. or you're lying to us now and you don't know if you're really pregnant or not. or you're lying and still a virgin and there's no way you're pregnant.

and just in case you are pregnant, your father can't just kick you out. if he did, i'd recommend calling child services. although i have to warn you, if it all came to that your boyfriend has a good shot at being arrested for statutory rape because the authorities would have to get involved to help you make sure you and your baby got the proper care and adequate housing (even if its consensual, in the eyes of the law, its a form of rape because you are considered to be too young to consent to it. like it or not, thats the law).

and what does gawjuss mean???? that does not sound like english...




Well I don't think the doctor lies :p I am defo prgnant :S and imnot going to the child services about my dad kicking me out because I didn't want to stay there anyway because now I have and AMAZING family :D and a gawjuss baby in the way :D

And gawjuss means ~ nice looking, beutifull that type of thing :L

You are 13 years old and you wanted sex and a baby? That is really bright.
And his parents are so nice, they are amazing, yeah, they don't want their 16 year old son going to jail for impregnating a 13 year old. You have just done your own parents who did not want you seeing this boy to begin with a dis service. You betrayed their trust and now you have new cool parents. I hope all of this is a lie, because if it isn't, I find it really sad.

You keep on thinking he didn't get what he wanted. You are 13, you don't even know what you want, but you best believe he knew what he wanted, but I'll bet he didn't want a 13 year old pregnant girl friend and how long do you think he's going to want you around?
You are not even mature enough to realize that you have done a very reckless thing and have brought an innocent child into this (if this is in fact true). You have no clue the the implications here.



It is all true :D and we will be together forever :D

well i dont think the doctor lies :p i am defo prgnant :S and imnot going to the child services about my dad kicking me out cos tbh i didnt want to stay there anyways cos now i have and AMAZING family :D and a gawjuss baby in the way :D

and gawjuss means ~ nice looking, beutifull that type of thing :L

I thought your parents approved! And it's georgous you twit!
Lord help that poor little baby.:mad:

well i dont think the doctor lies :p i am defo prgnant :S and imnot going to the child services about my dad kicking me out cos tbh i didnt want to stay there anyways cos now i have and AMAZING family :D and a gawjuss baby in the way :D

and gawjuss means ~ nice looking, beutifull that type of thing :L

No, a dr probably wouldn't lie. But you sure are.


Are dr's legally required to report this sort of thing? Since she's only 13 and pregnant, would they have to report statutory rape?

Well the him not touching me wasn't a lie because we were at his and like it was just the 2 of us cos his parents were out shopping :) so we were watching a dvd and we started talking about a few rumours that's going around school and he said im not like that babe i wouldn't touch you that way until you are old enough then a little while later he said he would do ANYTHING for me so i said would you sleep with me and he said hmm no cos of the age and im like please babe and i leaned in and kissed him and i kinda took it from there ;)

Yeah, you just keep telling yourself that! He knew what was going on. And who's idea was it to not use protection? If he was so concerned he would not have gotten you pregnant.
So how are you and this 16 year old going to take care of this baby? You have no HS diploma I'm sure he does not have a job that would pay enough to support you two.
You two are a piece of work, and this poor baby. Who is going to raise that child, or have you even thought that far?

I thought your parents approved! And it's georgous you twit!
Lord help that poor little baby.:mad:


What you mean they aproved? They allowed me to go with them and my mumsok wiv me being pregnant but my dad isn't :confused: and I don't care us young people spell it gawjuss because its cooler because we isn't no dictionary and I don't care how I spell things :P and don't call me a in twit you weirdo :P

And my baby will be fine :D

no, a dr probably wouldn't lie. but you sure are.


are dr's legally required to report this sort of thing?? since she's only 13 and pregnant, would they have to report statutory rape?

No he's not going to report it :rolleyes: because he doesn't know the age of the boy so he can't report rape iff he doesn't know the age of the father :rolleyes:

it is all true :D and we will be together forever :D

You poor misguided delusional child. You have no clue.
Lets just see how long this boy sits by your pregnant side. You are living in 13 year old la la land.

Yeah, you just keep telling yourself that! He knew what was going on. And who's idea was it to not use protection? If he was so concerned he would not have gotten you pregnant.
So how are you and this 16 year old going to take care of this baby? You have no HS diploma I'm sure he does not have a job that would pay enough to support you two.
You two are a piece of work, and this poor baby. Who is going to raise that child, or have you even thought that far?



My baby's gran and granpa is going to help us finantually and when we are at school. The father is leaving school after the exams and is going to get a job with his dad because his dad owns his own company :) so my little baby will be fine :D

You poor misguided delusional child. You have no clue.
Lets just see how long this boy sits by your pregnant side. You are living in 13 year old la la land.



Yeah I'm totally in 13 year old la la land :rolleyes: and he is sitting by my pregnant side right this second :P and we are discussing names and that :L

well i dont think the doctor lies :p i am defo prgnant :S and imnot going to the child services about my dad kicking me out cos tbh i didnt want to stay there anyways cos now i have and AMAZING family :D and a gawjuss baby in the way :D

and gawjuss means ~ nice looking, beutifull that type of thing :L

No, a doctor wouldn't lie, but he wouldn't be able to TELL that you're pregnant this soon.

You said you had sex the day after you started this thread, which would be on the 20th. It is not the 23rd. Even if you went to the doctor today, it would still be too early to know if you're pregnant. A blood test wouldn't show anything, because you're body hasn't had a chance to create enough of the pregnancy hormone for a test to pick it up. An ultrasound wouldn't show anything because the egg either hasn't implanted yet, or JUST implanted, and would be the size of a grain of sand.

It's IMPOSSIBLE for you to know if you're pregnant if you really did have sex only 3 days ago.

So he will be a dropout. Will probably have to work for his dad for the rest of his life because he won't be able to get a job anyplace else. And what are you going to do with your life?

It will be interesting to see how this turns out in a few months.

no, a doctor wouldn't lie, but he wouldn't be able to TELL that you're pregnant this soon.

you said you had sex the day after you started this thread, which would be on the 20th. it is not the 23rd. even if you went to the doctor today, it would still be too early to know if you're pregnant. a blood test wouldn't show anything, because you're body hasn't had a chance to create enough of the pregnancy hormone for a test to pick it up. an ultrasound wouldn't show anything because the egg either hasn't implanted yet, or JUST implanted, and would be the size of a grain of sand.

it's IMPOSSIBLE for you to know if you're pregnant if you really did have sex only 3 days ago.


Mate I posted this a week ago and trust me I am actual prgnant :P

no, a doctor wouldn't lie, but he wouldn't be able to TELL that you're pregnant this soon.

you said you had sex the day after you started this thread, which would be on the 20th. it is not the 23rd. even if you went to the doctor today, it would still be too early to know if you're pregnant. a blood test wouldn't show anything, because you're body hasn't had a chance to create enough of the pregnancy hormone for a test to pick it up. an ultrasound wouldn't show anything because the egg either hasn't implanted yet, or JUST implanted, and would be the size of a grain of sand.

it's IMPOSSIBLE for you to know if you're pregnant if you really did have sex only 3 days ago.
I think this girl is lying.

After labor starts she will want to pull his snoggler around his head.
Then Mom and Dad will end up raising the child. The sixteen year old will either be on welfare or working at a fast food joint. The thirteen year old will be home watching soap operas and eating. She won't be too gawguss then.:mad:

So you are thinking up names? Don't name that poor baby after either of you.Dumb and Dumber.

mate i posted this a week ago and trust me i am actual prgnant :P

No, the forum records the date and time of every post. Your FIRST post in this thread happened on April 19th. That means, if you had sex the next day, it happened on April 20th. Since today is April 23rd, then you had sex 3 days ago.

So he will be a dropout. Will probably have to work for his dad for the rest of his life because he won't be able to get a job anyplace else. And what are you going to do with your life?

It will be interesting to see how this turns out in a few months.



No actually he has already been on a collage corse with the school to do plumming and once he is 18 he will still work with his dad but he will go and do a few more years in collage and then his dads friend who is a plumber is going to give him a job :D and I am going to stay at school till I am 16 then leave then I am going to do one of those courses you can do at home and imgoing to learn to become a teacher :D

There is no way any parent in their right mind would be OK with their 13 year old getting pregnant or the parents of a 16 year old boy being thrilled with his 13 year old pregnant girl friend.
I'm not believing any of this.

no, the forum records the date and time of every post. your FIRST post in this thread happened on April 19th. that means, if you had sex the next day, it happened on April 20th. since today is April 23rd, then you had sex 3 days ago.



Nb :D

There is no way any parent in their right mind would be OK with their 13 year old getting pregnant or the parents of a 16 year old boy being thrilled with his 13 year old pregnant girl friend.
I'm not believing any of this.



Don't believe it then because I know its true :rolleyes: and my mums disapointed but she isn't trying to make me have an abortion like my dad is because I don't believe in abortions :( and his parents are actual fine wiv it ;)

I give up. Talking to a troll is more frustrating than trying to talk to a wall. This little kid thinks she can convince us all that she had sex and less than a week later confirmed that she is pregnant. And then she seems to think we're all too dumb to look at the post dates to do the math ourselves and see that its entirely impossible.

no actually he has already been on a collage corse with the school to do plumming and once he is 18 he will still work with his dad but he will go and do a few more years in collage and then his dads friend who is a plumber is going to give him a job :D and i am going to stay at school till i am 16 then leave then i am going to do one of those courses you can do at home and imgoing to learn to become a teacher :D
Yeah OK. Who is going to take care of this child?
You are going to quit school at 16 and take home courses to become a teacher? Yeah right!

nb :D

What does that even mean?

i give up. talking to a troll is more frustrating than trying to talk to a wall. this little kid thinks she can convince us all that she had sex and less than a week later confirmed that she is pregnant. and then she seems to think we're all too dumb to look at the post dates to do the math ourselves and see that its entirely impossible.
Yeah, there is no way she could be pregnant.
I find stuff like this irritating because there are real people out there with real problems and then you have trolls with nothing better to do.:rolleyes:

Yeah, there is no way she could be pregnant.
I find stuff like this irritating because there are real people out there with real problems and then you have trolls with nothing better to do.:rolleyes:

I isn't a troll I am a real person and this is a real problem :(

what ever mate :cool:





Teacher... I wouldn't let you teach a cockroach! You are lying and you have been since you began this whole charade. Knock it off and get a life! I'd say you're either 10 or you're a nut!

it means no bother :D
omg are use like all american or sumit :p cos yes are all as stupid as them :L
We are mature adults who know how to construct a sentence and spell words. Novel idea huh?

i aint a troll i am a real person and this is a real problem :(

If you have this all figured out, and you obviously do not care about what any of us have to say, why on Earth are you still posting?

And also, if you have this all figured out, how is this a problem?

it means no bother :D
omg are use like all american or sumit :p cos yes are all as stupid as them :L

Have you ever actually met or talked to an american?

And no, we're not stupid, we just speak in complete words and do our best to spell them correctly. Your refusal to do so accomplish nothing but to make us irritated.

She is starved for attention.
She is two days pregnant by a sixteen year old boy and she's bored.

oh well i must be a nut :p;):cool: and i am going to become a teacher and raise my baby up to have a good life :D and i aint no lier :mad:

WHOA... Must have hit a nerve:cool:

She isn't no lier Kit!
This is 13 year old girl who seduced (so she says) a sixteen year old boy and is now two days pregnant is going to raise her baby and have a good life, because the boy's parents are going to take care of them.

She aint no lier Kit!
This 13 year old girl who seduced (so she says) a sixteen year old boy and is now two days pregnant is going to raise her baby and have a good life, because the boy's parents are going to take care of them.

Oh yeah.. :).HG. I also believe they will live happily ever after... Isn't it romantic? :rolleyes:

Oh that we all could be that lucky!:)

I thought you couldn't find out if you were pregnant within a few days? Doesn't it take a couple of weeks for the body to even register that there is something in there?

If I were her parents, and all of this were true.. I'd turn the boyfriend in for sexual assult, take her down to the clinic and be the end of it. No 13 year old child should have to carry a baby. That's wrong on the parents side AND the girls part.

Ignorant child... She's goig to more than likely drop out of school and become a welfare mama.. or whatever system is over in England that takes care of the dead beats.

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