nehila
Apr 10, 2010, 01:24 AM
Assalamu Alaikum
Bismillahi rahmani rahim
I am N, Married to Mr M.I am mother of his 1year and six months boy child.I am a B.Tech graduate,worked as a guest lecturer before marriage,but did not continue after marriage because my husband did not like me working.I had first seen your talks in a CDwhich my husband had a great deal of collections.My husband is very religious outwardly,but he seems not to know the way to treat a wife.
1)He bosts about giving provisions to me and my child
2)he believes I am a slave
3)he physically tortures me(beats me and stamps at me,tries to kill me)
4)he mentally torture me asking why my father did not chose my twin sister for him.
5)he beats me asking there is none to support me in my house because my father has no boy s only 5 girl children and younger one still to be married.
After marriage we were in Salalah,lived along with his parents.He bet me in front of his pfather but he did not oppose it.I called my father who also is in salalah to rescue me from there.Now I and my son are with my mother in cochin,Kerala.I always pray to allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to allow me to take a decision which allah knows is best for me.Today I suddenly felt I would like to get an opinion from u.My husband daily recxites qurqn with its meanings,I now don't believe that he has true faith,but want to know that whether a person like you can talk to him,which can change his attitudes,if allahu subhanahu ta'ala wishes.
Bismillahi rahmani rahim
I am N, Married to Mr M.I am mother of his 1year and six months boy child.I am a B.Tech graduate,worked as a guest lecturer before marriage,but did not continue after marriage because my husband did not like me working.I had first seen your talks in a CDwhich my husband had a great deal of collections.My husband is very religious outwardly,but he seems not to know the way to treat a wife.
1)He bosts about giving provisions to me and my child
2)he believes I am a slave
3)he physically tortures me(beats me and stamps at me,tries to kill me)
4)he mentally torture me asking why my father did not chose my twin sister for him.
5)he beats me asking there is none to support me in my house because my father has no boy s only 5 girl children and younger one still to be married.
After marriage we were in Salalah,lived along with his parents.He bet me in front of his pfather but he did not oppose it.I called my father who also is in salalah to rescue me from there.Now I and my son are with my mother in cochin,Kerala.I always pray to allah subhanahu wa ta'ala to allow me to take a decision which allah knows is best for me.Today I suddenly felt I would like to get an opinion from u.My husband daily recxites qurqn with its meanings,I now don't believe that he has true faith,but want to know that whether a person like you can talk to him,which can change his attitudes,if allahu subhanahu ta'ala wishes.