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Unsure_11
Apr 4, 2010, 11:58 PM
So I have this friend who treats me bad.A couple weeks ago I got in a fight with her because my other friend told me something she said about me(it was mean) and I told my friend I knew what she had said.She denied all of it but I think it was true and the two of them are totely aganced me.She is always putting me down and we have been friends for almost 3 years now.I don't like her but how do I tell her that I don't like the way she treats me without her freaking out?I have tried to not be her friend but then she told her mom and she got invalved and talked to my mom about how we can`t fight and need to be friends forever.
So the question is how do I tell her that I hate the way she treats me without losing her as a friend forever?
Help me! Thanks

Alty
Apr 5, 2010, 01:00 AM
If you hate the way someone treats you, why are you concerned about keeping her as a friend? Does your mom know how she treats you and if she does, why is she pushing you to be friends with this girl? Actually, why is your mom even involved in this decision, she's your friend.

The best course of action is to be honest, tell your friend how you feel, be calm, make sure you have examples of things she's done that have hurt you, talk it out and go from there.

I just have to say that you definitely have the most creative way of misspelling against (aganced?) and involved (invalved?)

Good luck with your friend.

Unsure_11
May 1, 2010, 11:24 PM
My mom is involed because her mom keeps telling my mom aout it.I have told her she is treating me bad and I told her some things that she ha done and she thinks I am joking she never rakes anything I say seriously.
Thank for the help I will keep trying to tell her.