Me and this girl have known each other for a while, but it wasn't until a couple months ago that we started talking. We were on a trip together with out school and one night on the trip I saw her walking outside by herself looking sad, so I went up to her and she was depressed and started talking to me about her boyfriend and how she doesn't think she loves him anymore, so I was just listening and giving advice, there were other things that we talked about but it was mainly about her relationship, the next day I saw her and she thanked me and I thought nothing of it. But when we get back from the trip, me and her start talking more and she comes to me for advice, but me and her got closer and closer. I had started liking her and I told her that and she said she liked me too, a couple weeks went by and we had hung out and we talked and texted everyday on the phone, she sent me hearts and kisses and told me that she liked me a lot, and I also told her that, and one day her and her boyfriend broke up, and me and her started to talk more and hang out more, then a week later I noticed that when we talk it wasn't the same, she was giving me one word answers making it seem like she didn't want to talk, then I confronted her about it and she said it was nothing, and a couple days later her and her boyfriend got back together... When I talked to her she said that she missed him a lot and that's why she got back with him. So I was really sad because I had grown to really like her a lot. When we talk it isn't the same anymore but sometimes I can still sense that in her messages she is flirting but some days its straight one word answers.
I really don't know what to do, I still like her a lot but I don't know if I should wait around of her..
Whatt should I do?

I didn't read your post, didn't have to, your title told me enough to answer this question.


I like this girl but she has a boyfriend

She has a boyfriend. The end.

You leave her to sort out her problems with the boyfriend and move on with your own life.

Let her deal with her boyfriend issues, if you have feelings for her and you can't keep them under control, I would say distance yourself from giving her advice. Even if her and the boyfriend do break up, she is going to need time to heal just like everyone else. Make sure you don't become a rebound. Good luck!

STAY AWAY! She has a boyfriend, and if you don't. Don't be surprised if you end up with a hurting jaw

Leave her alone!

If you can't handle being friends with her without generating false hope for yourself (in hopes that something more can happen), then leave her alone.

Right now, you're her shoulder to cry on.

If she doesn't leave her boyfriend and starts seeing you, then she's a cheater.

If she breaks up with her boyfriend and jumps into a new relationship with you, then you're her rebound.

None of these scenarios are favorable.

If you can't stay only friends, then keep her out of her life. Otherwise, you're just setting yourself up for disappointment.

NC is best for you.

READ and remember,
Talaniman Rule - Never ever get to close to a person that has a committed partner in their lives.

Talaniman Rule- Never ever mess with any one who has just dumped their partner

Talaniman Rule- Stay away from any one that has an ex involved in their lives.

Talaniman Rules-Never assume that your feelings are shared by any one else.

Talaniman Rule #1- Never ever get involved with a committed person, ever never!!!!!!

Talaniman Rule- never be in a hurry to give your heart to a stranger. Wait until they have proven they deserve it, and know what to do with it.

Talaniman Rule- Doesn't matter how intense the feelings, or how much fun you have, never give your heart to someone you don't know well, and thats only after the lust has worn off for you both.

Break these rules at your own risk!

Don't bother the girl. She has a boyfriend!