I am a 51 yr old man and have health problems so I take allot of meds but the doctor said they should not cause me to not climax. The thing is I get an irrection and after several attempts it goes away and I enjoy it but, no climax and my wife feels like its her I feel like its me and we have tried everything. Please help us

You really need to talk this over with your doctor, it could be the mixture of meds or something else.

Make an appointment with your doctor and tell him/her what's going on.

All the best to you. :)

There are countless reasons a man (any age) may suffer this problem. Yes talk to your Doctor but examine what might be causing this it might not be physical

Might want to have testosterone levels checked. These usually start dropping around 40, tho' it can start earlier and be low in men younger than that, and often the incremental drop is not noticed as it progresses over time... it isn't a sudden event.

But it is tied into libido and drive. Something to consider.

The part of the nervous system that is tied into feeling pleasure is different than the part that is tied into the blood flow tied to an erection. Yes, the mind makes them intimately associated, but the paths aren't exactly the same.

Look first to the medications. Below is a link to a website where you can enter the name(s) of the drugs and it will provide you with both side effects and interactions. Easy to use, free and quick:

https://online.epocrates.com/noFrame/showPage.do?method=drugs&MonographId=2198&ActiveSectionId=5

Two drugs come to mind used in combination might help: Viagra and Yohimbine