I had a fight with my girlfrnd and she asked me to leave her alone for a while and also she asked me to not to call her until she calls me. What do I need to do in this case ?
Will she come back to me?

We can't tell you whether she'll come back or not,

All you can do leave her alone and go about your own business.

You need to respect her wishes. She's told you to leave her alone and not to call, so respect that and go NC.

Dear friend thanks for your reply..

I can leave her alone, but often I feel to speak to her and also I want to hear her voice, I can be like this, I am hurting myself... I dono what do do,

I want her in my life for ever, I love her so much... I can't be live without her, I feel alone now...

We have told you what to do, leave her alone! If you can't let her cool off, and see how she feels when she stops being mad at you, you will show a weakness, and disrespect to her, that she will despise in you, and that will make things worse.

Don't tell me you can't be a man and find something else to do besides cry in a corner, and want your mommy back? How old are you any way?

I am 26,

Respect her wishes and leave her alone or don't be surprised if cops show up at your door with a restraining order

Keep your mind distracted by going out do something. Keep yourself busy, workout is a good idea. Sit at home and think about it won't help.

Dear friends,

I really respect your answers, as per all of your wishes I ll leave her alone until she call me, am I rite..

Dear frnds,

i really respect ur answers, as per all of ur wishes i ll leave her alone untill she call me, am i rite..


Not per our wish but per your girlfriend wish. Go and find something to do to keep your mind off her "An Idle Mind Is The Devil's Workshop"

Yup I am going to divert myself

I know it's tough, but you've made the right decision to go NC. It WILL get easier with time.

I have to friends,
Friends ours is pretty diff love story, we never meet face to face we both are from diff country meet in chat and had a phone calls, we liked each other.. we used to speak more than ten times a day, but now not even one time, I feel like I fall in dark, I love her a lot, I trust and respect our love,

Time to go out and meet some local people-see friends and family.

Get busy-do things you enjoy.

Are you broken up? Or is she just extremely pissed at you?

If you're not broken up, and she hasn't said anything towards that direction, just let her cool off and think about whatever it is that you did. If she loves you, she'll forgive you on her own terms and start talking to you again.

She'll come around.. Don't worry

Sure I ll wait for her no matter how long it going to be, also I feel she ll realize my love and she will come back..

Dude, get a real relationship with a real person, why dontcha?

You she is real, I ll wait for her, going to let her free for a while until she realize my love and affection.

i have to frnds,
friends ours is pretty diff love story, we never meet face to face we both are from diff country meet in chat and had a phone calls, we liked each other.. we used to speak more than ten times a day, but now not even one time, i feel like i fall in dark, i love her a lot, i trust and respect our love,

You didn't fall in love. You became infatutated. No offense friend, get a life. Get off your butt and go out and meet an actual woman. Hold her hand. Look into her eyes. I think you'll find the WHOLE situation A LOT more stimulating than your current date of a mouse and monitor.

If letting her cool off after a fight makes you a puddle on the floor... I have serious concerns about what would happen if you actually lived with a p!ssed off mate.

Sounds like you are way too off balance here.

i had a fight with my girlfrnd and she asked me to leave her alone for a while and also she asked me to not to call her untill she calls me. what do i need to do in this case ?
will she come back to me?

It's a tough time to go through...
Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But... but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,it's a text... not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
I hope it works for you.
Good luck.

Its a tough time to go through...
Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But...but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,its a text...not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
I hope it works for you.
Good luck.


Ya sure I agree with your point, and also I have sent a mail today to her...
Let me wait till she reads my mail..

After a big breakup I started to speak wit my girlfrnd yesterday, but still she is speaking like a enemy,how can I make her cool & love me back and how can I make her to forget past, more than that I am out country now... help me..

What caused the break up?

How old are you both?
And why did you break up?

What caused the break up?

Our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
Suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while until she calls me without any reason. But I donot have patience to wait so I have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze I am torturing her by calling her.

After a week I have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. Her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

How old are you both?
And why did you break up?

I am 25 and she is 24..

Our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
Suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while until she calls me without any reason. But I donot have patience to wait so I have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze I am torturing her by calling her.

After a week I have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. Her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

i am 25 and she is 24..

our relationship was good till 2 weeks before,
suddenly she said that stop calling me for a while untill she calls me without any reason. but i donot have patience to wait so i have called her again and again she used to switched off and disconnect the call.and said she donot want me any more becoze i am torturing her by calling her.

after a week i have called her yesterday she pickedup the call and she spoke. her voice is good but they way she speak is kind of still angry on me.. help me how to proceed with this...

What happened to cause the breakup?

What happened to cause the breakup?

Just a simple that I am calling her often. She thought I am disturbing her..
She said that my call is irritating her.. this is the reason

Look,you need to back off and leave her alone-starting a new thread isn't going to give you different answers.

You respect her wishes and stop calling her.

Yea give the girl space man. Women hate a clingy needy guy. Back off and do your own thing... how long were you two together?

Yea give the girl space man. Women hate a clingy needy guy. Back off and do your own thing....how long were you two together?

Past 6 months

How do you get her to stop speaking like your enemy and be cool with you? That's simple! Respect her wishes and leave her alone, stop calling her! Every phone call you make to her, makes her more annoyed with you and perhaps dislike you more!
You have to leave her alone.

At 6 months dude, just back off. In my honest (and maybe harsh) opinion, you guys owe each other nothing, as 6 months feels like a long time, it isn't in the grand scheme of things. Show her you don't need her, and live your life with... yep you guessed it... no contact

Move on with your Life! Good Luck

Too much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?

To much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?



I'm not a fortune teller, but I don't see a future for you with this girl! How do you fall in love with someone you've never met?:eek:

To much drama, and trouble for an online long distance relationship. Geez guy you haven't even met her in person, I mean you act like she is the only female for you, but maybe try others, live ones even.

Have you sent her money, or expensive gifts or something?

No I didn't sent any money and gift, even she used to say I don't want any gift , just I need you in her life.


How do you get her to stop speaking like your enemy and be cool with you? Thats simple! Respect her wishes and leave her alone, stop calling her! Every phone call you make to her, makes her more annoyed with you and perhaps dislike you more!
You have to leave her alone.

You I agree with this, but unable to forget her also I feel to speak to her.

Do and respect what she said to you and immediately try to make yourself busy with your own business.She may come back to u but if not bear it up what so ever. Because u have to live first.

Get busy living your own life and start doing things you enjoy with friends and family.

Being active and having things to do will help you get over this.

Its a tough time to go through...
Okay,you had a fight with her and she told you to stay away till she calls you.That is her wish. It is true that you have to respect her wish.But...but,love being what it is,you are craving to talk to her and share those moments.I can't tell you what is going through her head or if she will call you back.But I can tell you that you should not fail to make her know how you feel before letting her alone.
If I were you,I will send her a text and express how I feel.Atleast,its a text...not a call.When you have done this,then you can let her be and see what happens.If after hearing the sorrow of your heart,she doesn't call you,then maybe you really need to let go.
I hope it works for you.
Good luck.



Hai I have sent a sorry mail but she didn't reply me back.
So I have called her to tell sorry but she shouted at me and said that never ever call me.
Also she said that don't even come to see me after dead. I really feel like dead after hearing that word, I never thought that she ll tell like this.. I am really heartbroken... There are many girls in the world, why did I loved this girl alone.

You just couldn't listen, and do as she asks, just couldn't let her alone for a week, and enjoyed some free guy time. To bad, now she is mad, so leave her alone until she is not, and contacts you.
Don't make it worse.

You just couldn't listen, and do as she asks, just couldn't let her alone for a week, and enjoyed some free guy time. To bad, now she is mad, so leave her alone until she is not, and contacts you.
Don't make it worse.

She said that she is going some where for a job, without informing the place to anyone, I said that I ll search for you for ever, but she replied by the time I find her she might be with kids.I said even though if I see you with your kids, I ll SAY gain that I LOVE YOU "

she said that she is going some where for a job, without informing the place to anyone, i said that i ll search for u for ever, but she replied by the time i find her she might be with kids.i said even though if i see u with ur kids, I ll SAY gain that I LOVE YOU "

What in the world is wrong with you!! Does this girl have to draw you a picture? She wants you to leave her alone. I'll explain; You are stalking her, texting, calling, whining, telling her if she leaves you will find her! You sound like a man who is going to have his way no matter what!

You are too immature to be in a relationship. You also may find yourself hit with an Order of Prorection against you. Ever heard of stalking laws. Ever heard of the law against cyber- bullying. That's what you're doing when you text her these threats of finding her if
She leaves. She's through with you let it go.

Note: Text speak is not allowed on this forum. Use full words.:(

How old are you 10, leave her alone.

Which part of leave her alone do you have a problem understanding?

Stop stalking her and get a life!

Buddy...

Most of us lose a big love along the way. Often, more than one. It happens.

You get upset. It hurts. No fun. Eventually it gets really boring being heartbroken and you start to move on.

So... welcome to earth.

Annnnnd... I guess this isn't so true...


i can leave her alone...

buddy...

most of us lose a big love along the way. often, more than one. it happens.

you get upset. it hurts. no fun. eventually it gets really boring being heartbroken and you start to move on.

so... welcome to earth.

annnnnd... i guess this isnt so true...

I have decided to leave herrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr...

Good decision-stick to it.

Get back to living your own life and be happy.

Good luck.

Good decision-stick to it.

Get back to living your own life and be happy.

Good luck.

Thank you...
Really you all helped me to come out of this big tragedy... again I thank one and all.
Where are you from amicon is that your name

At the moment I'm in the same situation... what I used to do is calling her for one mint.
Believe it or not she is calling me now
So back to what I used to do is calling her and asking how is she couple of seconds without giving her the chance to ask me or telling me anything...
That's if she answered and usually she answer..
If she doesn't then LEAVE HER ALONE
Always put yourself in her position and act accordingly