So... yeah I know I'm selfish, I'm a bad friend... blah blah blah. I Can't help how I feel about him - his name is *Josh* and he's going out with a friend I've known since year 7 (now in year 10) they've been going out for over a year now and let me make it clear I don't want to break them up they're a really good couple and make eaachother happy but I'm not, I can't bare to see them anymore they remind me constantly of him and how much I want him - I have just moved schools, told my mum I was struggling and she got me moved , but now he moved to my school to go into the 6th form I hate being around him because I feel I'm betraying my friend... I just want to finish school so I don't have to see neither of them again but I need to cope for another year and a half...

Oh I have liked him for a year x

Oh no - he moved to your school too?

You say that you don't want to be around him, so why not just avoid him? You don't have to be friends with him, so only strive to be civil.

You still need to respect your boundaries and find your very own new fellow.