jmfg
Mar 22, 2010, 08:28 AM
hi I need some advice. I'm 2, she's 18, we've been dating my girlfriend for just a little over a year now, and things were going wonderful. Until just after this last christmas.
we used to shower everyday together and be practically inseparable with just about everything. We would cuddle together every morning and night.
now she never wants me near her when she is showering, she goes in there and locks the door and puts on loud music. When she goes to her volunteer service thing, I used to always go with her, now she made some excuse about how I should go with because she'll get in trouble. THERE Wasn't A PROBLEM BEFORE!! I just don't get it
I don't think she is cheating, I just couldn't see her doing that. But there is definitely something going on. The other day she randomly just left outside without saying anything, and when I went out there I heard her on the phone, then when I saw her she denied ever being on the phone or even having it. So I ask her where it is and immediately she goes and grabs it from right under the bed. I checked there before I asked her. It definitely was not there. She had the phone with her. I just really need some advice.
I can't think straight anymore, I'm losing sleep, I never play my guitar any more. Life seems so bland and tasteless now. Thanks for your time sorry its so long.
p.s. if your going to post some comment about anything to do with our sex life, then please don't bother. Sex has nothing to do with this. I love it but its far less important than keeping her. Ill never bone again if I have to. Have a nice day.
-jmfg
we used to shower everyday together and be practically inseparable with just about everything. We would cuddle together every morning and night.
now she never wants me near her when she is showering, she goes in there and locks the door and puts on loud music. When she goes to her volunteer service thing, I used to always go with her, now she made some excuse about how I should go with because she'll get in trouble. THERE Wasn't A PROBLEM BEFORE!! I just don't get it
I don't think she is cheating, I just couldn't see her doing that. But there is definitely something going on. The other day she randomly just left outside without saying anything, and when I went out there I heard her on the phone, then when I saw her she denied ever being on the phone or even having it. So I ask her where it is and immediately she goes and grabs it from right under the bed. I checked there before I asked her. It definitely was not there. She had the phone with her. I just really need some advice.
I can't think straight anymore, I'm losing sleep, I never play my guitar any more. Life seems so bland and tasteless now. Thanks for your time sorry its so long.
p.s. if your going to post some comment about anything to do with our sex life, then please don't bother. Sex has nothing to do with this. I love it but its far less important than keeping her. Ill never bone again if I have to. Have a nice day.
-jmfg